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Thank u. It is friends like u that keep me going. And I believe this last confrontation, I did give him a scare. I drove by a little house that was for sale (but learned after calling that it already had two contracts pending) but I told him about this house and that I didn't care if we divorced because of financial complications but I didn't have to live in this situation any more. I told him how much income I wanted from our rental properties and all of our retirement savings since he still worked and could bring in more income in the future. And in return he could keep the house, our Polaris ranger etc.. and knowing I had put much thought into leaving and already had a plan, he knows now that if he doesn't make some huge changes, we are done. I did visit one Sunday evening at the other church. Of course it wasn't home to me But I decided he is the one who needs this other church in the form of counselling. I have grown in the Lord over these last seven years and it's time he did the same. Thank you for always being there. God is good and He is in control here :)
posted by
Butterfly-1950
on May 14, 2015 at 4:55 AM
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Yes, definitely take in a funny movie or two or three. Whenever I feel like is giving me a swift kick in the butt I watch the movie Nothin To Lose. It changes my perspective and I can let go of a lot of things. Maybe I need to watch it again as well.
posted by
Annicita
on May 13, 2015 at 10:31 PM
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A funny movie sounds a great idea...and how many times does himself expect you to trust him yet again, I just don't have a clue. I knew both times that once there was another woman involved I had to go. But that is me...we are all different and asked different things of.
Some how he needs a scare, can you suggest with civility that he moves out for a few weeks while you sort out yourself, your Church, and what you want in life. You are not a dormat to be walked all over forever. You are a beautiful loving, giving, caring woman who deserves just a little bit of respect from the man you love.
posted by
Kabu
on May 13, 2015 at 5:02 PM
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