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My first comment to you is what I would say again to you....and it didn't come across right to you, evidently sounding like I didn't think you had the right to this or that.  I think you have a right to be safe beyond all else...and that you must think of that beyond all else.  The last comment I said to you is that the best thing about an attorney is that they can be a gladiator for you.....that is their purpose.  I wish you safety, I wish you well.

posted by Krisles on April 6, 2015 at 10:23 PM | link to this | reply

 Just get out of there and away from him. That is not a way to live.

posted by Vermont01 on April 6, 2015 at 7:13 PM | link to this | reply

Purple

I have no idea what to suggest beyond the things already mentioned...I just hope that it will all work out in thye end...

posted by Nautikos on April 6, 2015 at 6:01 PM | link to this | reply

Purplerose,

I am just so sorry to read this and hear all the terrible things you're going through right now.  I will add you to my prayer list.  Peace be with you.

posted by lovelyladymonk on April 6, 2015 at 2:24 PM | link to this | reply

You may not be aware of it, but you are encouraging his acting like this by letting him do it - by walking on eggshells just to keep the peace. The way it is now, you will eventualy you end up with the police, so maybe it's better to get it done and over now instead of having it drag on and causing more than financial problems. Speaking from experience here.

posted by adnohr on April 6, 2015 at 2:15 PM | link to this | reply

Purple Purse

Get outta there with police escort kiddo you've had enough of a danerous situation

posted by WileyJohn on April 5, 2015 at 6:20 PM | link to this | reply

You are going through a lot there. I wish you all the best.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on April 5, 2015 at 3:46 PM | link to this | reply

Oh

I hope you will go through this with no more pain. And I will cross my fingers for that. 

Best wishes containing luck.

posted by kasperhoe on April 5, 2015 at 1:53 PM | link to this | reply

i meant list of property to the lawyer...and Annie is right...never go there alone. Take a social worker or a friend or the police leave when they leave.

posted by Kabu on April 5, 2015 at 10:43 AM | link to this | reply

I would get out now. I would give a list of my peoperty to the attorney but keep saying to yourself...I am loveable. I am a person. Material things don't matter. I can start again. When can you go to your new house?

posted by Kabu on April 5, 2015 at 10:42 AM | link to this | reply

I would not worry too much about material things, better to keep a good relationship if you possibly can.  

posted by C_C_T on April 5, 2015 at 9:53 AM | link to this | reply

You should inform your attorney of what he is doing and ALWAYS go over there with someone to back you up.  He is definitely going off the deep end and you need support of a friend or relative who will help you in dealing with him

Stay strong and don't back down.  Make your list and give to your attorney -- not to him!

posted by Annicita on April 5, 2015 at 9:23 AM | link to this | reply