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It's not sex anyway
It's not sex if there's no penetration. So if it's only oral it must not be sex, right?
posted by
Dickster
on January 16, 2004 at 5:10 PM
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My definition...
of sex is whatever would be considered cheating if you were married to someone else.
Jeff
posted by
jollyjeff
on January 15, 2004 at 2:52 PM
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A virgin used to mean...
...a girl who had never been married - not one who had never had sex.
I still consider the loss of my virginity to be the night of first penetration. Otherwise, if you just count the first time you're sexually active then I lost my virginity to myself LONG before any men came along.
posted by
Tamara99
on January 12, 2004 at 7:08 AM
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Truer words were never spoke....
Except when the doctor told my mom "It's a boy"
I've had the argument about Oral Sex since back in my highschool years.
I never got Oral in H/S but that's beside the point.
Many people don't think that oral sex is a rapture on there pristine records.
And, What about the Ladies who use,,,,,,Utensiles?
Though I'm not against it....does that cross the virgin line?
posted by
Mahnarch
on January 11, 2004 at 7:22 PM
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Well, I'm so glad to hear someone say that!!! I know these groups (Christians?) trying to teach abstinence to teens are doing what they think is right. But--these kids still have their raging hormones and they've got to do something. We know a girl, about 17, who works for Walmart and goes to school. So she went to one of those youth camps where they all made promises to remain virgins until they got married.
Yeah, right!! So now, she's been caught in the back of the breakroom giving BJ's to guys her own age. She truly believes she's still a virgin. NOT!
posted by
Passionflower
on January 11, 2004 at 3:09 PM
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