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Hello Bel!!
Once the love for yourself is top shelf..it seems things fall together pretty great, as I have finally figured out. (took long enough..lol)
posted by
hazel_st_cricket
on January 30, 2012 at 6:22 AM
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You have choices! That is great when you can enjoy your life as it is, yet can also welcome the type experiences that you prefer!! YOU GOT IT GOING ON...
posted by
Dr_JPT
on January 30, 2012 at 12:44 AM
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Anyone who comes on too fast is one to run away from! I do not care for needy people myself! You will know when the time is right for you to get in a relationship again, so now just enjoy life as it comes! sam 
posted by
sam444
on January 29, 2012 at 12:55 PM
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The problem w/coloring hair? Eventually it's like you went gray overnight!
My mother's dad never stopped combing his ever thinning thatch over, and on one particularly windy day back in the 50's it got blown "over" onto his right shoulder, as I watched, fascinated. I swore a solemn vow to myself that day, that I'd never become so vain, and so self-deluded as he must have been, if or when I someday lost my hair.
Recently I heard or read a quote somewhere, that said that in order for most of us to remain sane, a certain amount of self-delusion is absolutely necessary. Made sense to me, at the time.
Some other interesting things that I heard today, while watching TV:
"UMMM! Oh, I could eat about SEVEN more bats!"
Andrew Zimmer
Don't hear somebody say THAT every day.
"The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering."
Bruce Lee, or some script writer
Guy
posted by
northsage_45
on January 29, 2012 at 12:30 PM
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The frind's brother sounds like a contender. Conservative is good, humane, caring and a lot more. As for the other guy he needs a younger chick, much younger like just old enough to be able to date a grown man. 
posted by
Justi
on January 28, 2012 at 8:21 PM
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Bel
The brother is conservative? Good man, and probably good dating material, LOL! The other guy? Good thing I have long since stopped being embarrassed by what other men do...
posted by
Nautikos
on January 28, 2012 at 6:37 PM
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It seems we develop high speed instincts about guys at some point
after the whole heart has been bet on a losing game. Something in the recovery process makes all those little signs we missed when we were younger stand out in blazing neon these days. I've learned the art of fogging. (See "Games People Play" by Eric Berne I think). It's a technique you use when someone gets in your face with their opinion, and you say 'I can see where you might believe that," which isn't agreeing, but doesn't ruffle their feathers either.
posted by
Pat_B
on January 28, 2012 at 12:31 PM
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It's wonderful to read of someone enjoying one's life.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on January 28, 2012 at 12:12 PM
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