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Bel
Thanks for sharing what is and was painful for you. I, too, have thought much of writing a book about depression and adultery but since I have not shared my story with anyone but Blogit, I would have to use an alias name... to write it. I am still living with this man and though he's stopped seeing these women, it's the memories that I need healing from. They pop up in the tiniest things in my life, but reading about people like you who have gone through the same things as I have that have helped me to cope and move forward. 
posted by
Butterfly-1950
on January 31, 2012 at 8:22 AM
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Bel
By all means write that book. You will not only help Pam, CeeCee and many others, but you will also help yourself heal even more in doing so...
posted by
Nautikos
on January 26, 2012 at 11:27 AM
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Be it physical, emotional, or verbal abuse, I think it’s important we share with our daughters our personal experiences. They may go on to make a poor choice in spite of our advice but they will at least feel comfortable coming to us for guidance should they find themselves in trouble. By sharing a part of ourselves, our lives, it keeps us human in their eyes.
posted by
Troosha
on January 24, 2012 at 9:32 AM
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Bel Marshall
Write the book luv, it will be a winner. I am sorry you lived that, so many women have gone through that and some men can be dangerous I'm sorry to say.
posted by
WileyJohn
on January 23, 2012 at 2:48 PM
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I feel that a book is a wonderful idea and that you will have many interesting stories to share with them.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on January 23, 2012 at 1:42 PM
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Life can be tough! But, the most important thing is that we survive the incidences that seem to mold us! You know what happened and how to fix it and then in turn help others. You will be more than a survivor in this because you will become a testament of how to overcome the things that confront and destroy and in the final analysis give others, many whom you will never know, the strength to overcome as well! That, my friend, will be worth all of it! You can't change it but you have the capacity to help others keep away from the dregs of life that others inflict through their selfishness! In all of this I believe you will discover great healing too! So, write the book for the sake of yourself and also for the other lives you will touch! I know you will do an excellent job with it! sam
posted by
sam444
on January 23, 2012 at 10:45 AM
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Re: Pat
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for everything. I am going to do just that! 
posted by
Bel_Marshall
on January 23, 2012 at 9:04 AM
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So many of us have been through this.
Write your book. Maybe it will help someone avoid the pitfalls.
posted by
Pat_B
on January 23, 2012 at 5:47 AM
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