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Be blessed in all that you do. xoxoxoxo

posted by Justi on April 12, 2011 at 8:00 AM | link to this | reply

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thanks Wiley John.  I just don't feel like I'm doing enough yet..............

posted by luweegie on April 11, 2011 at 1:35 PM | link to this | reply

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I really HOPE so too Sam, thanks!

posted by luweegie on April 11, 2011 at 1:35 PM | link to this | reply

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I'm really sorry for ANY kind of abuse that ANYBODY suffers!  One kind is no more important than another in my opinion.  I didn't realize how much I'd been beaten down and abused in other ways by my kids Dad until way later.  I used to sing in the church choir, a lot of solos too. I was asked to sing solos a lot!  My kids' Dad told me I couldn't sing anything other than Church music. He played the guitar and sang.  My hubby now has made C D's of me singing of which family members and friends fight over...........that's just one example.  I don't know WHY some people have a need to BEAT OTHERS DOWN mentally OR physically but I do know NOW that it's THEIR problem...........not ours..............my dear daughter made sure that Her Dad HEARD the last CD I made and asked him " I thought you said mom couldn't sing?"  LOL

I'm sorry to hear that you are estranged from your mother but sometimes it's just BETTER that way and NOBODY gets to choose it but YOU!  thanks for reading my blog! And, I'm so glad that you were able to forgive her!  Lack of forgiveness is HARDEST on the person withholding it, I believe.

posted by luweegie on April 11, 2011 at 1:33 PM | link to this | reply

By sharing your experiences, it helps you to heal & allows others to be able to open up. I never went through sexual abuse. However, I did have a mother who was verbally, emotionally & at times, physically abusive. My parents have been divorced for 22 years. She's no longer in the family's life. I did forgive her, long ago.

posted by GypsyButterfly on April 10, 2011 at 6:18 PM | link to this | reply

It is nice of you to reach and I hope there are some who can benefit from your candor! sam 

posted by sam444 on April 10, 2011 at 2:48 PM | link to this | reply

luweegie
You are a lovely person to make this offer to help luv.

posted by WileyJohn on April 10, 2011 at 12:33 PM | link to this | reply

I am so sorry to read that you've been through it!  I hope everything is alright with you now and that your scars are healed!  God bless you!

posted by luweegie on April 9, 2011 at 1:28 PM | link to this | reply

I have been through this too, Luweegie.  Bless your courage and your strength.

posted by lovelyladymonk on April 9, 2011 at 12:44 PM | link to this | reply

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