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Re: Sooner or later that harridan will get hers.

Strat,

  As of today, it seems she has lost her daughter...she may not get it now, but she just lost something more valuable than all the money in the world.

posted by Bel_ on October 21, 2010 at 7:08 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Bel

Wiley,

   I adore you and your way of saying it "just right"!

posted by Bel_ on October 21, 2010 at 7:07 PM | link to this | reply

Re: thank God you are still in this teenagers life.

Kabu,

   I thank God, she is still in my life.

posted by Bel_ on October 21, 2010 at 7:06 PM | link to this | reply

thank God you are still in this teenagers life.

posted by Kabu on October 21, 2010 at 2:57 PM | link to this | reply

Bel
I think Pam's mama's cheese has slid off her cracker luv. Hang in, Jan is coming

posted by WileyJohn on October 21, 2010 at 2:36 PM | link to this | reply

Sooner or later that harridan will get hers.

And there's no doubt that Pamela is lucky to have you for her mom.

posted by strat on October 21, 2010 at 10:03 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Lionreign
Thank you so much.  I am lucky to have her in my life.

posted by Bel_ on October 21, 2010 at 8:41 AM | link to this | reply

I think beyond tests, people should have psych evaluations before they even consider having children, the world would be a much happier place for it.

 Pam is lucky that her real mother is so much better than her bio mother

posted by lionreign on October 21, 2010 at 8:29 AM | link to this | reply

Re:
Thank you Grandma.

posted by Bel_ on October 21, 2010 at 7:40 AM | link to this | reply

Re: She is very luck to have you...I know the consequences of being called such

Ariala,

   It's sad that too many children and adult children know how this feels.  We keep crying for change yet, nothing ever really does change in this arena.

posted by Bel_ on October 21, 2010 at 7:40 AM | link to this | reply

Re: About that first comment...

Pat,

  Sadly, I know that story all too well.  There is nothing more painful than to have to stand back helpless because the law is on the side of the abuser.

posted by Bel_ on October 21, 2010 at 7:38 AM | link to this | reply

About that first comment...
the toxic woman is my son's ex. They've been exed for ten years, but that doesn't mean she hasn't made his life hell anyway -- what's up with family court, that they'd let her have custody of a ferret, let alone human children, when their dad is so solidly in their corner...

posted by Pat_B on October 21, 2010 at 6:06 AM | link to this | reply

Pam's mother could be a clone to my granddaughter's mom.
That drunken nasty witch has put my grandkids in danger, driving drunk, and she goes to a lot of trouble to inflict her bitterness with life on her own daughter. All I can say about a toxic woman like that, is one of these days her chickens will come home to roost, she'll be alone in the house and undiscovered for weeks after she falls down and can't get up. At least that's my unspoken fantasy. Shame on me.

posted by Pat_B on October 21, 2010 at 6:03 AM | link to this | reply

She is very luck to have you...I know the consequences of being called such
names...I was, and hadn't even been with a man yet. 

posted by Ariala on October 21, 2010 at 4:37 AM | link to this | reply

I agree that one should have to prove they are qualified to be a parent. Your daughter is blessed to have you as a mom.

posted by dancin_grandma on October 21, 2010 at 3:27 AM | link to this | reply

Her bio mom needs to learn a simple lesson: if one doesn't have something good to say about another they should keep their mouth shut! How awful to trash such a young person! It is beyond my comprehension! The bio mother needs counseling and fast! Some folks don't deserve their offspring and this is a great example. If Pamela didn't have you she would be one lost child (young woman). sam 

posted by sam444 on October 21, 2010 at 1:51 AM | link to this | reply