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Happy Easter, too! sam

posted by sam444 on April 4, 2010 at 3:55 AM | link to this | reply

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apa kabar juga Shobana? lama tidak mendengar kabarmu, saya harap semuanya baik-baik saja. Bagaimana dengan hari Paskahmu? semoga menyenangkan ya? Terima kasih atas commentnya, semua yang kamu katakan memang benar bahwa pernikahan itu tidak selamanya seindah seperti yang ada di film-film romantika. terkadang dalam kehidupan nyata, pernikahan itu selalu banyak cobaan yang akan datang silih berganti. dan kita harus siap menghadapinya jika ingin menikah benar kan?  

posted by RV_lunar on April 4, 2010 at 12:02 AM | link to this | reply

Lunar - Selamat Pagi dan apa khabar dik, I hope you find someone really nice and who really makes you happy like I have. Life does have its ups and downs and bila kita kahwin ada yang mengada tetapi kerana kita telah mengambil tekad untuk kahwin, untuk anak-anak kita, kita mesti cari cara-cara untuk memberikan rumah yang membanggakan mereka. Bukan selalu perkahwinan itu macam fairy-tale sayang tetapi apa yang engkau tulis semuanya betul.

posted by shobana on April 3, 2010 at 4:17 PM | link to this | reply

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I'm glad to hear you can make a good friend with your ex-wife. Hope you can be friend with her forever. Thank you for visiting my blog MasonGarrett

posted by RV_lunar on April 3, 2010 at 7:54 AM | link to this | reply

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thank you for your advice Tzippy, you open my mind so now I can see what life for? once again thank you for visiting my blog

posted by RV_lunar on April 3, 2010 at 7:51 AM | link to this | reply

Yes... life is complicated...
...wise choice to wait ...we all rush after so many false things money, fame, status ...I have been foolish like many others ...spent most of my life working to support family and others ...lost all ...married and divorced twice ...now children grown... and yet, ironic and funny ...after all these years my ex-wife and I occasionaly visit and perhaps have lunch together... and we have both admitted that out of all that we 'others' we have both known since our divorce... none were as good as what we had together... and now, even though we can't live together, we are the best of friends ...and often joke that we messed up a good friendship by getting married ...not to worry my friend, somehow it all works out if you are pure in your heart.   Keep writing, you're very sensitive and it shows. 

posted by MasonGarrett on April 3, 2010 at 7:39 AM | link to this | reply

I agree with your analogy
but your solution should not be, not to get married, it should be not to behave the way all those people behave. Not to leave your child behind, not to cheat on your husband, not to do all those things you can clearly see that are wrong. This only shows that you are a good person, therefore, when you find a partner that is a good person, you can make good decisions together and live a better life that would contribute greatly to our society, for we are so lacking good decent families that value the honesty and commitment.

posted by Tzippy on April 3, 2010 at 6:39 AM | link to this | reply

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I'll keep going written lovelyladymonk and thank you too for your comment

posted by RV_lunar on April 2, 2010 at 11:55 PM | link to this | reply

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you must be very happy with your marriage life calia14. thank you for visiting my blog

posted by RV_lunar on April 2, 2010 at 11:54 PM | link to this | reply

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you right Sam... thank you for your comment Sam

posted by RV_lunar on April 2, 2010 at 11:52 PM | link to this | reply

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I hope you can enjoy your single life lustorlove and thank you for visiting my blog

posted by RV_lunar on April 2, 2010 at 11:51 PM | link to this | reply

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posted by RV_lunar on April 2, 2010 at 11:48 PM | link to this | reply

Hello Lunar, and thank you for visiting my blog.  This is well written, so keep going!

posted by lovelyladymonk on April 2, 2010 at 7:23 PM | link to this | reply

I've been married three years and I wouldn't have it any other way.  There was no pressure by anyone to get married, and we don't want children, so that whole ball game is not there.  We love each other for each other and have fun every day together.  

posted by calia14 on April 2, 2010 at 7:04 PM | link to this | reply

I agree! Get married when the right one is found! sam

posted by sam444 on April 2, 2010 at 5:20 PM | link to this | reply

marriage is ok for those that are in it for the love of each other and not what the other person can do for them, people have to work at marriage.  I was married for 20 years and now being single for 27 is a long lonely road to travel, but I dont want to get married again

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posted by WindTapper on April 2, 2010 at 7:24 AM | link to this | reply