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One of the problems I see with what Tammy is doing is interrupting a very good thing! What her expectations are and what the expectations of the guys are seem to be out of kilter! Again, sitting in a room and watching television is not the worst case scenario! It is a comfort zone that you bring to them! It can be very upsetting to them when a routine is broken! I have a son who comes and just hangs out in the den with and we can go a very long time without saying a thing, but it is comforting to have him in the room! You have spent 7 years building a rapport with these men, you actually know what is best because you have the hands on experience! Tammy feels just too textbook to me! Don't quit in haste but empower yourself to do the right thing by these men, you such a fine young man that it would be a shame to let anything less happen! Love how you and your Dad were on the same wave length! Like the old adage, great minds think in pairs! Go to him more often and don't keep unnecessary things bottled up! He is wise and insightful, use this resource as often as possible when troubled! sam
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sam444
on February 2, 2010 at 5:41 AM
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