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Hello Spiderfly - well, he does and doesn't exist... I believe he knows how I feel, and he does know that I care. I am worried about his health, and I won't stop reaching out when I have the strength.
posted by
mneme
on June 27, 2009 at 10:27 PM
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It comes and goes, Merkie... when I was married I used to find my husband's antics dominating my daily thoughts too. It would be nice to have my head back for my own use..!
posted by
mneme
on June 27, 2009 at 10:25 PM
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Re: mneme
One thing he can't have, Naut, is both his new partner and my friendship. It's a question of my self-preservation. Forgiveness doesn't extend to continually setting yourself up to be hurt again.
posted by
mneme
on June 24, 2009 at 7:39 PM
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Peas in a pod then Naut... this is why I can't throw something at him, which is what I feel like doing.
posted by
mneme
on June 24, 2009 at 7:25 PM
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mneme
I have to say this in response to the last sentence in your answer to Sam - this man strikes me as one who had made up his mind you were not for him
long before he told you,
but couldn't bring himself to tell you because he's too
nice...
posted by
Nautikos
on June 24, 2009 at 7:21 PM
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It's still giving me the impulse to write poetry though sam :) It isn't a question of moving forward, it's just that there is no place to go quite yet. I'm nowhere ready for another relationship, and as I walked in this morning I wanted to tell him that I don't deserve to be on my own, and that I'm on my own because he didn't want me any more after all I had been through in order to be with him. My counsellor felt I still needed to confront him; that's not possible when he won't be able to see the problem and what the effects have been on me. I know he still cares; he just made decisions that suited his needs, and he didn't stop to think through what this would do to me. If I was so 'not' what he wanted, why be with me this long at all?
posted by
mneme
on June 23, 2009 at 5:25 PM
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If you could move forward life would be so much better! Best wishes! You do pour your heart out, though! sam
posted by
sam444
on June 23, 2009 at 9:22 AM
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Most of us just keep on caring- maybe there is no off switch. I hope all is well!
posted by
merkie
on June 23, 2009 at 8:37 AM
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a soul full of emotions. If he exists then I hope he knows and dont ever feel sorry for caring.
posted by
spiderfly
on June 23, 2009 at 1:16 AM
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