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I don't want you to not write what you want! But this situation is best forgotten. I would be happy to lend support for the issue of cancer and pray. But, this thing of the ex is not healthy to carry. You are not capturing your kismet if you hold onto to the past! You need to grasp the elan of the day. I don't know the background and it is none of my business but I can see that it is preventing your growth! Carpe Diem to you! sam

posted by sam444 on August 2, 2008 at 10:27 AM | link to this | reply

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Sam, Casper HELPED my ex lie to me, to entice her into a relationship with her.  Casper wrote nasty emails to me while the ex was in the other room telling me about 1/2 of their conversations. Casper was AN ADULTERER in the fact that she came to the 'rescue' based on absolute lies. I have left both of them alone on here, taken the hits, and she opened herself up to it by sticking her nose where it didn't belong again. You are right. I had access to the things she wrote about me, and I had access to the EMAILS the ex sent to my current, I took the higher road, UNTIL Casper and her miserable-on-the-inside-drinking-too-much bravado got the best of her normally UTOPIAN blogs and brought her to the defense of someone who has been lying to you all. I at least actually AM happy with most of my life, and wish them the best, but ask they LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE and GO ON WITH THEIR HAPPY LIVES. Glad you too took their bait. I know what I saw, as do all of the tangible people in my life. The people who watched me, not just readers who believed what I wanted them to hear, can attest to the pain that I endured. Pain is a part of life my friend, and this pain was a part of mine. I try to write what is real, whether anyone cares or not. I don't write to please, I write to release, and now you don't want me to do that, because you are coming to the defense of someone you have never laid eyes on.  You want me to be happy all the time, and write only about happy things? Ok. I will forget that my father's cancer has returned, or that my mother has just had a stroke, and that people can't drive, and I am living on a 7/10 pain scale daily. I'll do my best just so everyone can be happy. 

posted by EmmaCunnan on August 2, 2008 at 9:14 AM | link to this | reply

I never get into anything but I have come to know Casper on Blogit and I read the previous blog and comment. I think silence is a great defense. To write a blog on a comment makes me think there is something suspect. I don't see how you have let go. The person you are referring to in these blogs seems to be taking quite a hit. I wonder about a motive, so it then seems to me that perhaps you should let go for your own benefit. Why bother? I don't think Casper makes a comment to defend a friend to start a war. I would come to the defense of a friend like she did. I would walk away if I were you. You got your life in front of you and why hold onto something that is in the past. It appears the other person has moved on and is quite happy. Forgive yourself and live life to the fullest. And it would be wonderful to let it all go and wish the other person a fantastic life and happy life. I know it make you feel good. May the Lord bless and keep you.  sam

posted by sam444 on August 2, 2008 at 8:14 AM | link to this | reply