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I guess I have been alone for most of my life, so I am used to it ....

I can't imagine how you are feeling sweetheart ... I can only send you lots of

posted by VictoriaP on April 20, 2008 at 8:32 PM | link to this | reply

THANK YOU everyone!

appreciate all the comments on this one.  The more I think about it, Sam hit it right on the head.  I just don't like to be alone at night for some reason, though I lived alone for many years before.  I think it's also because I was always (even as a kid) on the second floor, which felt so safe.  In my apartments before, when I was alone, I was on the second floor too.  I think I'm still trying to get used to living on the first floor of any building!  I hadn't thought of that too much before, but maybe it's just all an adjustment.  Thanks everyone for your thoughts! 

posted by majesticvisions on April 20, 2008 at 1:26 AM | link to this | reply

Oh don't fear ~ please ... Keep in touch with whomever you can (if even here) so you'll find security or serenity as the time passes.  Sad, for ya' but, I also know you'll be fine ~ Elyse

posted by elysianfields on April 19, 2008 at 4:38 PM | link to this | reply

I think you are nervous to be alone, can't blame you. I truly think people are ingenuous and you will be fine. sam

posted by sam444 on April 19, 2008 at 11:47 AM | link to this | reply

I can't add anything, because all the sound advice has already been given to you by my blogger friends who read you prior to me. But, where does your insecurity come from? Give that a thought whilst you do all the other sensible things suggested to you.

posted by vogue on April 19, 2008 at 9:04 AM | link to this | reply

Lock the doors, get some popcorn (or beer) and watch movies or play music. When tired, go to bed, hugging a baseball bat!  Lol

posted by Soul_Builder101 on April 19, 2008 at 8:20 AM | link to this | reply

Is it because the country is unsafe where you are or because he chose

to go alone?  I say since you have time to yourself, invest it in things that feed your soul...enjoy the culture, go to a bookstore, a gallery, take a bubble bath, write, spend time here and we'll keep you from being lonely.  I hope you're safe and that fears will be laid to rest

posted by Ariala on April 19, 2008 at 6:02 AM | link to this | reply