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I am single and live lonely
But I enjoy my life. Cheer up!

posted by Kayzzaman on March 19, 2008 at 9:51 AM | link to this | reply

Never alone

  You're never alone.  God is with you.  Spend time with Him.  He loves you.

  I know, because I'm divorced too and I've been through the same thing and

  were it not for His grace, I would not have made it.  Hang in there.  (Psalm 42)

posted by Kolekshuns on March 18, 2008 at 7:23 AM | link to this | reply

Hang in there, flappergirl!
I'm twice divorced. Both my teenagers are from my first wife and they were always closer to me than to their mother, so living with her and her insecure, controlling boyfriend, was hell for them. I didn't think I would make it through! They would cry on Sunday's, when it was time for them to go back home, but, I had to be strong for them, even though my heart was being ripped out. I eventually got custody of them and we are all doing fine. During it all, I, like you, second-guessed myself. I know, now, that I did the right thing in leaving their mother...a long story I won't bore you with! To wit...it's perfectly natural to second-guess yourself, especially where your kids are concerned. But, don't make any rash decisions based on that. Take the long view! It hurts like hell!...I know! But, do what you have to do...love your kids and fight like hell for them...and don't give up! I hope I have been of some help! Good luck and take care!  

posted by metalrat on March 17, 2008 at 8:06 PM | link to this | reply