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Re: Hello Soul Builder! My body 'shuddered' and 'whent cold'-as I read your
comment! I know
nothing of you being- quote-"hated for what you are"?un-quote! I see and feel NOTHING-in your writings on here that could ever inferre such a thought! I am so sorry that the world has been so very much against you Soul Builder!I sincerely hope and pray that you
will continue to fight-against what you are trying so hard to survive! Yes-it feels right to say-"your enemies will perish"-if that feels right for you.You have my email details on 'my about me page'--if ever you feel you would like to write to me-please feel free to do so! God Bless you Soul Builder! Chris.
posted by
Scramble
on March 12, 2008 at 7:18 AM
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I did read those posts I missed! I am inspired by your courage. I am hated for what I am. The world has given me a life of zero and pain, except for a few years. I may not survive too long but I will fight! My enemies shall all perish. Too bad for them. Walk with God!
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Soul_Builder101
on March 11, 2008 at 6:56 PM
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Re: Good work! I've written things like this about my so-called father.
Great to hear your views Pat B--many thanks indeed! Chris.
posted by
Scramble
on March 11, 2008 at 2:15 PM
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Re: Many thanks Sam! Chris.
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Scramble
on March 11, 2008 at 2:14 PM
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Re: Thank you for the rose Taps. Chris.
one for you.
posted by
Scramble
on March 11, 2008 at 2:12 PM
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Good work! I've written things like this about my so-called father.
Finally let go of it because I'd given him too much of my limited time and attention, and he's not worth it. And besides, what didn't kill me made me a helluva lot tougher. Keep writing!!!
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Pat_B
on March 11, 2008 at 8:08 AM
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I am reading along! sam
posted by
sam444
on March 11, 2008 at 7:24 AM
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TAPS.
on March 11, 2008 at 6:19 AM
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Re: TAPS--I too-believe that now-now that I have recovered if you like and
am no longer a dys-functional person! (I have made MANY Horrendous Mistaked myself)! I have learned that she was extremely young/naive for her age-struggling terribly-financialy-and was 'Prostituting' herself in order to 'make ends meet' and because-that was all she knew! She-had a similar up-bringing to myself! The legacy of poor parenting-runs through the generations and simply continues-until and unless-someone LEARNS HOW TO STOP THE BALL ROLLING! Easier said than done! I did--the only way that was offered to me-by going into therapy! I now can look back and recognise where she came from-and where I came from and yes--I forgave her--but--the emotional issues that crop up--MUST BE DEALT with-(in my humble opinion)-BEFORE -(in many cases-as in mine)-I could reach a state of 'forgiving her'--which of course-I long since have done! But-to DENY those emotions-before forgiveness-leaves then festering inside! (again-in my opinion).I have also watched-the 'knock on effect'-my being in therapy has had on my family and it has been a 'good effect'! Thank you TAPS-I hope that 'our exchanges'-may be of some benefit to 'a reader'! God bless.Chris.
posted by
Scramble
on March 11, 2008 at 6:01 AM
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Scramble, basically I am a believer in the idea that everyone does the best they can with the set of circumstances that they have. It would be interesting to know the reasoning behind the actions of Marion and what prompted her to be the kind of person that she was when it came to her lack of mothering. Since we will never know that, the best I can do is offer you my sympathy for what you did not receive from her.
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TAPS.
on March 11, 2008 at 4:59 AM
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