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There is no failure in carring...
Fear is expected....there is no weakness in that. To feel it in your soul that you are afraid for someone else is enough. You don't have to break down and cry to let others know that you care, there are times when it can do more harm than good. Being there for them, even if it was only hours can make all the difference in the world by itself. Sometimes its good to simply cry it out rather than hold it inside, I know that from my own experiences...but not all people are able to do that. If I could tell you how to let it out, I would have been able to shed alot of grief along time ago. Just know that you care and that they are aware of it, don't (at least try) be afraid of the time you may not have with them if something goes wrong and simply hold onto the time that was yours. Those are memories that will never fade. Theres nothing selfish about wanting more time with people it seems you haven't had time enough for....I went through that, its painfull. Keep a strong faith and do whats best for you, don't bottle things up inside simply to protect others or to look tough, and don't simply crumble because others do. Search yourself and follow your heart, those who care about you will always understand.
posted by
gavelkorbald
on December 3, 2007 at 9:24 PM
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MY SON IS GOING TO IRAQ SOON>>>>>>>>EVERYTHING IS UNIMAGIINABLE! SAM
posted by
sam444
on December 2, 2007 at 3:23 PM
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