Comments on Asking advice

Go to Donelle's Poetry - Add a comment - Go to Asking advice

hang in there.

posted by Amanda__ on November 9, 2007 at 6:17 PM | link to this | reply

PLEASE DON'T KILL THE GIRL

You seem to be very thoughtful and considerate;

that's why you're asking for advice.

i don't know the situation so what do i know;

so keep that in mind'

i'd say,

that's too many years!

OK, bad analogy time...

Old shit doesn't stink,

but it's still shit.

i might be totally wrong...

shit, that's not reassuring...

ahh

posted by Sudanym_ on November 9, 2007 at 6:05 PM | link to this | reply

The little girl inside

Always want to laugh and play, and never give up on the little girl inside you. Because she is who you are today, and who you will be tomorrow.And never give up on yourself for anyone, NEVER. God wouldn't even ask you to do that, so why should anyone else deserve that. Wayne from Texas. P.S have loved all your writing I have seen so far.

posted by Soulofapoet on November 9, 2007 at 5:30 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks again

Sometimes I wonder if I have not already lost who I am,but I am working hard at getting back the Girl I used to be in order for me to become the Woman I was meant to be. I cannot afford to stay lost otherwise what good am I to anyone else?

Thanks for all your comments and advice,I appreciate it immensely.

Love and kisses D

posted by donelle on November 8, 2007 at 8:48 PM | link to this | reply

What Potent Questions!

Life is painful isn't it, I am with Oosthuzen in that if you give up yourself you probably won't be able to be a good mother or wife. I consider myself happily married but times are trying and I feel lost in HIS life HIS parents, you have to keep some of you for YOU! Take care,

posted by KaBooM62 on November 8, 2007 at 4:17 PM | link to this | reply

:)

the poem on my bedroom wall is entitled try, try again

posted by sherri7 on November 8, 2007 at 3:26 PM | link to this | reply

DONELLE

Relationships, can prove very hard work at times, so much to be thought of etc.

I found your piece well written and covered your dilema well. I do not like to advise personally on anothers relationship. I will just say in remark to your last line....

'Do I give up me... for you?'

If this is the question in any matter, then I do not believe we should give up ourself, forfeit who we are for another.

Like you said, you're not after validation, as only you can make those choices and decisions.

I truly hope it all works out for the best, whatever the outcome. Take Care

Bless

Regards

posted by UncharteredSoul on November 8, 2007 at 8:43 AM | link to this | reply

I suggest a trial separation

posted by Shams-i-Heartsong on November 8, 2007 at 4:48 AM | link to this | reply

Take care of yourself.

posted by Kayzzaman on November 7, 2007 at 4:25 AM | link to this | reply

hmmmm

well i say you have to take care of yourself first othewise there is no way possible that you can take care of anyone else. ( kids or husband ) and if you are not ok with yourself now then change it and make what is not ok ... .ok..... have a good day..... keep smiling...

posted by whiteknight3128 on November 7, 2007 at 3:15 AM | link to this | reply

Asking advice

You alone can make the final decision. None of us has all the facts to give you clear advice. One thing I can tell you however, by not taking care of you, you are silent killing the wife and mother inside you. I know I've been there. It took a lot of inside work to finally get to a point where I can be myself and still be a good wife and mother! Like I said before our tenth aniversary is coming up in two weeks time but we've been together for fifteen! And believe you me, with all my husbands good traits it's not easy living under the same roof with him. He has a mother who has been doing everything for him up and untill our marraige. Even now she would easily take over from me, given a chance! I just made him understand I'm not his mother nor maid, he was furious, but eventually he got round (or should I say tired of dirty clothes laying around or dishes that hasn't been done!) Good luck!