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richinstore
Oh, you are so, so sweet. Don't feel bad, I'm fine. He was never abusive in that sense but he did often get upset and that bothered me very much and it is true that he was selfish. I also hope I can find someone to appreciate me.

posted by le_divorcee on October 9, 2007 at 7:00 AM | link to this | reply

FineYoungSinger
I'm sure I'm not alone and that brings some comfort, you know. I know my body is capable of much more than it felt during our marriage and I hope I can find someone who will unleash it.

posted by le_divorcee on October 9, 2007 at 6:59 AM | link to this | reply

TAPS.
That's what I was going for, I didn't want to be offensive... Thanks.

posted by le_divorcee on October 9, 2007 at 6:59 AM | link to this | reply

le divocee
I cried when I read your post. I'm so sorry for you. Looks like Tim is very raw and not passionate at all. And he doesn't know how to appreciate a thing of beauty called a wife. It's no use crying over spilt milk. Hope you do find someone who knows how to appreciate you body, mind and soul...you as a whole being. Good luck. You take care.

posted by richinstore on October 8, 2007 at 6:09 PM | link to this | reply

You did a great job expressing this.
You are not alone in this experience.  Generally, abusers are selfish, inadequate lovers.

posted by FineYoungSinger on October 8, 2007 at 3:56 PM | link to this | reply

le_divorce
You did a good job of writing this in such a way so that, even though it was graphic, it was not offensive, but rather clinical instead. 

posted by TAPS. on October 8, 2007 at 12:29 PM | link to this | reply

riri0322
I really do hope so. Thanks.

posted by le_divorcee on October 8, 2007 at 9:12 AM | link to this | reply

you will find your perfect lover

posted by riri0322 on October 8, 2007 at 9:09 AM | link to this | reply