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It is sad when they want to see their dad and I don't know what to tell them. It makes me angry and we were just getting by as it was when my husband was around and now it seems ten times worse. Life is great.

posted by 8-ball on May 8, 2007 at 6:51 PM | link to this | reply

How frustrating for you...

and so sad for the kids.

posted by shortskirtsrkewl on May 8, 2007 at 6:20 PM | link to this | reply

Taps

Thank you for your kind words. I know time will heal but I wish it would speed up a little bit.

posted by 8-ball on May 8, 2007 at 6:08 PM | link to this | reply

Kabu

LOL you've hit that one on the nose.

posted by 8-ball on May 8, 2007 at 6:07 PM | link to this | reply

211

Well I'm glad you stopped by and was not disappointed LOL. I wish I had a happier post for yah!

posted by 8-ball on May 8, 2007 at 6:07 PM | link to this | reply

316

Yes it will take time, yes but that eight years together and he just walks out. Seems like he has found a new life with someone else.

posted by 8-ball on May 8, 2007 at 6:05 PM | link to this | reply

Hi Rcky

LOL your right they will. Good comment and thanks for reading.

posted by 8-ball on May 8, 2007 at 6:03 PM | link to this | reply

8-ball

What a bad time for you.  I know it doesn't seem like it now, but time will pass and things will get better.   My MIL was a pill and she left a bad taste in my mouth, as did my ex-, but its all water under the bridge now and life has moved on.   I hope it will not be more than you can bear for you and the children.

posted by TAPS. on May 8, 2007 at 1:37 PM | link to this | reply

8 ball

I'm sorry you are being put through this. it's not being an in law that turns people horrid it's who they are. Sounds to me like mother like son.

posted by Kabu on May 8, 2007 at 5:53 AM | link to this | reply

Hey doll!

I know you said that no return click was needed after you commented on my post about giving from the heart, but I wanted to give you a return click.  And I am not disappointed.

I know these times are difficult, overall, and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

posted by Jemmie211 on May 8, 2007 at 12:53 AM | link to this | reply

It will take about two years to get over this

That's one thing I learned. The pain, denial, anger, bitterness, it all takes at least 2 years before you start to feel like you again. That's what the experts say. It's true.  It's been two years and a few months since he broke up with me when I was pregnant with our daughter. The fog is just now starting to clear, I have a good job, a new apartment, my daughter is now a toddler and we are making it without him.

You are only six months into it. You have a couple years to go. To grieve, to grow, to heal.

posted by missjohn316 on May 7, 2007 at 12:18 PM | link to this | reply

Offy

you are lucky! Thanks for reading take care.

posted by 8-ball on May 7, 2007 at 9:11 AM | link to this | reply

Hi 8-ball...Mother's will almost always defend their kids..even when they

are assholes! LOL

posted by RckyMtnActivist on May 7, 2007 at 9:11 AM | link to this | reply

bandanafish

I know living through this makes me furious. My husband needs a five month time out away from his kids to think about his life.

posted by 8-ball on May 7, 2007 at 9:10 AM | link to this | reply

lovelyladymonk

. I need one thanks!

posted by 8-ball on May 7, 2007 at 9:09 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks Shelly.

posted by 8-ball on May 7, 2007 at 9:08 AM | link to this | reply

Mademoiselle

It does suck she has a big mouth and likes to tell stories. Thanks for reading.

posted by 8-ball on May 7, 2007 at 9:08 AM | link to this | reply

Masky

Thank you for that up lifting comment. I can't believe what I am going through myself somedays. I'm glad that my dad is here to support me and get us the help that we need plus I'm sure he loves it when I get home from work so I can take over the post at his store. He hasn't had a life outside of it.

posted by 8-ball on May 7, 2007 at 9:07 AM | link to this | reply

8-Ball...

..."going through a tough time and needs to think about his life?"  Oh, that makes me very salty.  Thank Gawd your children (and the dog) have you in their life, because despite the tough times you're going through personally, you can do two things at once...think about your life while continuing to be there for those who need you the most.  I'm sorry you and the kids are going through this...XO

posted by ---Masky--- on May 7, 2007 at 4:26 AM | link to this | reply

It would suck to have a mother-in-law like that ...

Primarily because it would mean having that guy as an (estranged) husband.

"RIP, Barbaro. Sorry Heaven doesn't allow animals."

posted by Mademoiselle on May 5, 2007 at 4:11 PM | link to this | reply

I'm so sorry this is happening to you..

I hope you get through all of this okay.

posted by shelly_b on May 5, 2007 at 1:35 PM | link to this | reply

posted by lovelyladymonk on May 5, 2007 at 11:29 AM | link to this | reply

Reading this even makes me mad!

Kudos for sticking up for yourself.

posted by bandanafish on May 5, 2007 at 10:02 AM | link to this | reply

8 ball

I have been blessed by good mother in laws. I can't imagine the trauma of having to deal with someone like yours...

posted by Offy on May 5, 2007 at 10:01 AM | link to this | reply