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Whinge
It would be a difficult thing to trust anyone who pretends to really wants her becaus she is a possible half billion dollar package. I do hope this man loves her, I believe he does. If he is her father which he is he should have her.

posted by Justi on April 13, 2007 at 3:48 PM | link to this | reply

This whole episode is a pity. I don't think the granny is the best to rear
the little one to be honest, being that she didn't make the greatest job out of Anna who definitely had some long inherited issues.

Every now and again, it would be nice to be surprised by someone with genuine interest in looking after this little one, and not the money associated.


posted by CringeintheUSA on April 13, 2007 at 3:09 PM | link to this | reply

Scriber
I hope he does not regret taking the child. I hope someone does not marry him for the money too and it goes on and on. Money is not a companion, a lover or a friend; it can help when you have none of these. As you said he will live in a fish bowl and I would not want that for billions.

posted by Justi on April 12, 2007 at 4:13 PM | link to this | reply

The new father was a fairly successful photographer, attractive guy,
probably got all the women he wanted and had few worries.  Can't believe he doesn't have a girlfriend, also.  He's giving all that up just for the opportunity to get a lot of money.  I predict he will live to regret his decision.  From now on he will live in a fish bowl. 

posted by scriber on April 12, 2007 at 3:47 PM | link to this | reply

Justi
A think we are all from dysfuctional families luv.

posted by WileyJohn on April 12, 2007 at 12:17 PM | link to this | reply

Justi
There is so much sadness in this world and an excessively large amount of money doesn't really seem to change that very much.

posted by TAPS. on April 12, 2007 at 11:48 AM | link to this | reply

Chyrlann
There are lots of programs going around that helped people. Be blessed. I am in a real funk right now, but the Lysine is helping the constant itching now. Thanks for the one of many tips. You are a dear. I love your book.

posted by Justi on April 12, 2007 at 12:49 AM | link to this | reply

J, you did cover this issue very well........
Such a televised circumstance brings to light for all of us.  My brother & wife are foster parents in the process of adoption, boy....what hoops they had to jump through in order to have those little blessings in their home! And more red tape and hoops to adopt.  Too bad all parents didn't have to go through such rigors before receiving license for key to the chastity belt...that's a little drastic but seriously, having sex does not a parent make.  I do believe there is a tremendous amount of training available; classes, books, etc....now compared to when we fumbled our ways through.  The church calls this process of battered parents raising battered children, generational curses.  I believe these curses can be broken if the smashed child decides not be be a smashed parent and gets help.  Great post.

posted by roadscross on April 11, 2007 at 10:08 PM | link to this | reply

Justi, poor little rich girl probably says it all for this child.

posted by Kabu on April 11, 2007 at 5:54 PM | link to this | reply

AMEN, Justi.........

You said it all!  I hope that baby will be loved and cared for. 

How are you, Justi?  Are you getting better?  I hope so.

posted by MaggieMae on April 11, 2007 at 3:46 PM | link to this | reply

Justi
Functional family – what’s that??? I think we're all just trying to find our way the best we can and the best we know how. 

posted by Troosha on April 11, 2007 at 9:56 AM | link to this | reply

I so agree with you.I recently touched briefly on this in one of my posts
on family.  You are right there is no perfect family,only survivers who heal at different rates and to different degrees.  I really admire people who get past the most terrible circumstances and become whole people--or as whole as it is possible.

posted by proc on April 11, 2007 at 3:23 AM | link to this | reply

I agree with lust .

posted by afzal50 on April 10, 2007 at 8:01 PM | link to this | reply

justi
its the hardest job we face but there is not much training and sometimes the training is from someone that already failed at the job, so we do our best to struggle through life

posted by Lanetay on April 10, 2007 at 8:00 PM | link to this | reply

Justi
Well I didn't know about Anna Nicole, but you raise the issue of parenting so nicely, that I always seem to feel and something inside me saying, "Oh,Bhaskar...you've failed here". But luckily both of my sons turned out intelligent, independent, and loving towards us. Thank God!

posted by Bhaskar.ing on April 10, 2007 at 7:57 PM | link to this | reply

thats an interesting perspective........
.......and a kind point of view........

posted by telemachus on April 10, 2007 at 7:27 PM | link to this | reply

Odysseus
I think everybody was tired of it long ago. It was watched because there is something in it that is in all of us. The need to be important to at least someone, pain, sadness, and hopelessness. It is just that most of us handle it hopefully better than she did. I hope the child fares much better.

posted by Justi on April 10, 2007 at 7:23 PM | link to this | reply

Gawd, I'm so tired of that Anna Nicole stuff......but I do agree that we
so often do not know what people have faced in their lives, they most often deserve our compassion and care......:)

posted by telemachus on April 10, 2007 at 7:16 PM | link to this | reply