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Bel... so will I.

posted by Chilitree on March 22, 2007 at 2:33 AM | link to this | reply

I will, Bel, I will.

posted by richinstore on March 22, 2007 at 2:32 AM | link to this | reply

That's so sad. I lost my friend due to a car accident too..

even though I was twenty, it was a hard time for me.  I will keep the family in my prayers.

posted by shelly_b on March 21, 2007 at 5:05 PM | link to this | reply

bel
I am so sorry! God will give them grace to get through it. I shall pray for them. I am so sorry.

posted by Justi on March 21, 2007 at 4:19 PM | link to this | reply

Bel
There is so much sadness and sorrows in this world.  It is good that there is so much giving and helping from people who understand and care because of having been through sorrows of their own. 

posted by TAPS. on March 21, 2007 at 4:13 PM | link to this | reply

Always sad when news like this happens

posted by Kabu on March 21, 2007 at 3:44 PM | link to this | reply

Bel
Peace  this is heartbreaking..

posted by Blue_feathers on March 21, 2007 at 2:48 PM | link to this | reply

This is a nightmare loss.I will keep them in my prayers.

posted by proc on March 21, 2007 at 1:42 PM | link to this | reply

Bel

How devistating.  I can't even begin to imagine the loss that this family must feel.

I agree. Since she is not there, I wouldn't want to tell her.  Why upset her for no good reason.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on March 21, 2007 at 8:24 AM | link to this | reply

Tanga
I know they can use them right now.

posted by bel_1965 on March 21, 2007 at 8:08 AM | link to this | reply

That it is Strat

posted by bel_1965 on March 21, 2007 at 8:07 AM | link to this | reply

Temple
I stated that wrong.  I am not going to tell her right now.  I will be up with her in a couple of weeks at which time I will tell her what happened.  Right now he life has put pulled out from under her and I want to be there with her when I do tell her, so I can offer her comfort.  I  don't want to tell her over the phone.

posted by bel_1965 on March 21, 2007 at 8:04 AM | link to this | reply

Wow. How horrible.

posted by strat on March 21, 2007 at 7:41 AM | link to this | reply

bel, I'm sorry to hear such sad news, but I want to offer my opinion..
I lost a lot of friends in middle and high school, and I would have been so livid and mistrustful of my Mom if she had never told me.  She will never have her chance to mourn or say good-bye if you don't say anything.  Just my thoughts having had too many funerals to go to before I was 21. Best of luck on such a tough call, and I'm glad you and Carl are in communication. :)

posted by Temple on March 21, 2007 at 7:19 AM | link to this | reply

A parents nighmare
My prayers are with them

posted by Tanga on March 21, 2007 at 6:04 AM | link to this | reply

A parents nighmare
My prayers are with them

posted by Tanga on March 21, 2007 at 6:04 AM | link to this | reply

A parents nighmare
My prayers are with them

posted by Tanga on March 21, 2007 at 6:04 AM | link to this | reply

Bel
Yikes...that's really sad. Good luck~

posted by Offy on March 21, 2007 at 5:58 AM | link to this | reply

Me too Az

posted by bel_1965 on March 21, 2007 at 5:10 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you Mark

posted by bel_1965 on March 21, 2007 at 5:10 AM | link to this | reply

My heart goes out for the family .

posted by afzal50 on March 21, 2007 at 5:09 AM | link to this | reply

Corbin
no she doesn't and I don't think given all that has happened in her life lately that she needs to know.

posted by bel_1965 on March 21, 2007 at 4:59 AM | link to this | reply

So Pam doesn't know about this?

posted by Corbin_Dallas on March 21, 2007 at 4:54 AM | link to this | reply

Hang in there.

posted by mark2556 on March 21, 2007 at 4:45 AM | link to this | reply