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there you go DM,. you understand me so well, thanks.....
posted by
star4sky5
on January 26, 2007 at 8:14 AM
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And if there were no chocolate...
the world would be a much sadder place!!
posted by
DMWRIGHT
on January 26, 2007 at 8:11 AM
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it bothered me because she hasn't seen me for seventeen years
and she expect me to be thin like then.......it's pretty hard, because I eat chocalate.....
posted by
star4sky5
on January 25, 2007 at 10:53 PM
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so sorry
i hope things worked out ok. to me it does not matter what people look like. it is whats on the inside that counts.
posted by
greyashes2000
on January 25, 2007 at 10:51 PM
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thanks,,,,,
posted by
star4sky5
on January 25, 2007 at 10:18 PM
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hanks friends.......I don't worry about it so deeply, because I like the
way I am.........I used to be so thin and every one used to pick on that before, so I am happy the way I look and I get lot of compliments from every one.......So let her be happy with her comment, my confidence way high than her....
posted by
star4sky5
on January 25, 2007 at 10:10 PM
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A few points for you star
1. You are far more beautiful than Ms. Stick on account of what is in your heart.
2. As pointed out elsewhere, 150 is not fat. It is certainly not that heavy, but it is not frail. I could lift you and not have to worry about breaking you.
3. Muscle weighs more than the same volume of fat.
4. Even should you become fat, it is not a problem. Mr. Edward Bear, now known as "Winnie the Pooh", was heartened by the discovery of "King Louis the Handsome", who was "definitely fat". There is beauty in fullness.
5. I have had the opposite problem. People have been complimenting me on my loss of weight. I tell them the truth. I have a new weight loss regimen. It is called "poverty". You have obviously become prosperous, but have no desire to share your wealth with unappreciative, so-called "friends".
Carl Peter
posted by
cpklapper
on January 25, 2007 at 10:03 PM
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star - i am very sorry for you. i had a "friend" like that once, she
would say the most unkind things. it took me a long time to understand that she said these things because she was in a hurting place. i tried to be patient, hoping that one day she would see me for me, appreciate me for me but she never could. the comments only became worse and really, it was because she never fixed the hurts in her own life so her own hurts only became worse. eventually i had to not be her friend anymore, it was not a balanced association and i deserved better. she deserves better too but it is up to her to make it happen.
there are many people in the world waiting to be your friend. and there are many men who LOVE woman with curves and soft places. as long as you love you, you're on the right track.
posted by
fourcats
on January 25, 2007 at 9:50 PM
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hey brother, I am here for five more minutes, I am really pretty than her I
know it. When we were children, she used to be bigger than me and worry every minute, I eat more than her and used to be skinny, I am not going to be 110 lb any more...........I am not round, I am oK and confident, but she irritated though. If I get too skinny, no one willlook at me HAHAHA........... One of my friend a cute guy said that I am sexy, I take that...Thanks for the kind words.
posted by
star4sky5
on January 25, 2007 at 11:06 AM
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no no no
Fat is like 450 pounds. That's fat.
I'm in shape, round is a shape too.
When people tell me I'm fat, I just say 'yeah, and you're ugly. I can lose weight, but no way can you lose that face.'
Maybe she's tryin' to set you up with someone without telling you. Who cares, it's America we have food, they don't. Come on over and have a twinkie or a couple of ho hos, don't listen to them skinny people, they're like bean poles, who climbs bean poles, beside jack in that stoopid story.
Long story short, laugh a little, let the worries drip off into the gutter and wash away like yesterday's rain. Life is too long to let people hurt us.
posted by
Whysper
on January 25, 2007 at 10:44 AM
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you are beautiful even if you gain 100more
posted by
drohan254
on January 25, 2007 at 9:27 AM
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Starry
Since i America, you can be you, and no one can worry you, so merry be!!! Be not mad, but always glad, like
this.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on January 25, 2007 at 8:36 AM
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I'm so sorry, Star!
That was very wrong for her to say and maybe you need to tell her that. When you have a good/best friend, you do feel that you can tell each other everything, but that is going too far. Maybe there is something you can say to/about her that will show her how hurt you feel. If so, maybe she will not do this again to you or anyone else that she calls her friend.
It happens even in America - my sister's mother-in-law hadn't seen me in 10 years and I gained some weight as well. I was in high school when I first met her and of course you are more active in high school. The first thing she said to me was "You've gained weight!" She didn't say hi, how are you; nice to see you, etc. I will never forget that and will always think she is a mean lady. She is pretty ugly, too, and I wanted to say back to her, "And you are still ugly." BUT, I didn't. I didn't say anything. But she is not a friend of mine and I did not care what she thought.
People here can be mean, too!!! Sorry, Star!
posted by
DMWRIGHT
on January 25, 2007 at 8:20 AM
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Zenned, I know that's what she needs it, but I can't be like her..........
She was like a sister to me, I never seen her daughter, so I need to go see her and daughter......SO FORGIVE, I know I feel like kicking her, but I will forgive her, because she knows my life only the way she saw before, she never know how much I had gone through......
posted by
star4sky5
on January 25, 2007 at 1:34 AM
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disgusted
with that friend
I'd be so disgusted and insulted. It would be bye-bye.
posted by
Zenned
on January 24, 2007 at 10:34 PM
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I mean she hasn't seen me for seventeen years
posted by
star4sky5
on January 24, 2007 at 9:48 PM
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17 years, then I have two children, still I can fit size 8-size 10, 150 lbs
but she specifically asked me to loose at least 3kgm, may be about 7lbs.......I love the way I am, i am confident, i think lot of comment saying I am cute, but I can't stand some people in my life.
posted by
star4sky5
on January 24, 2007 at 9:22 PM
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That was a terrible thing for your friend to say...
You have every right to be upset about this. If she were really your friend she would love you JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!
Your outter appearance doesn't matter...only what's in your heart. You're a very sweet, giving, kind lady. You're also very beautiful.
Tell your friend to kiss your fat ass!!! LOL! That's what I would do!!!
posted by
Passionflower
on January 24, 2007 at 9:15 PM
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I am so mad, the pictures which I thought some better was the one I send
to her........I feel so mad now........She told me same on phone one day, but she wrote you are FAT........I can't stand
posted by
star4sky5
on January 24, 2007 at 9:05 PM
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That is too bad, Star4you.
Sometime people can be very hurtful, even our friends and loved ones.
posted by
TAPS.
on January 24, 2007 at 9:02 PM
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SHE CALLED ME FATTY, I AM ONLY 150lbs......
posted by
star4sky5
on January 24, 2007 at 8:54 PM
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