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Very very moving tribute to your Grandpa
I am sure he is looking down from heaven and smiling

posted by Tanga on December 28, 2006 at 12:42 AM | link to this | reply

bel,
I haven't been around much, and only read your story today. But I am so glad I did (not that I would want to miss your posts ever anyway). Your love for that special man literally shines through, and it's great that you followed your heart and had that last Christmas with him...

posted by Nautikos on December 27, 2006 at 6:03 PM | link to this | reply

Bel....
Looking forward to seeing you back........

posted by Corbin_Dallas on December 27, 2006 at 5:56 AM | link to this | reply

bel
This is a very emotional post, bel, and I must confess that I am blinking away the tears as I type this comment.  God Bless.

posted by johnmacnab on December 26, 2006 at 3:11 PM | link to this | reply

sounds like your grandpa was a very special man, bel..I remember mine
although he passed on when I was about 9 yrs old..when we visited him, he always had time for me all by myself.....

posted by Rumor on December 26, 2006 at 12:50 PM | link to this | reply

Merry Christmas!

posted by Amanda__ on December 25, 2006 at 4:20 PM | link to this | reply

What a wonderful memory! I'm sure your grandpa is watching you and smiling!
Merry Christmas!

posted by Whacky on December 24, 2006 at 9:02 PM | link to this | reply

bel...

This is an awesome story. Sounds like your Grampa and my Dad will get along fine up Yonder!

Merry Christmas to you and yours.

posted by bwFrampton on December 24, 2006 at 5:57 PM | link to this | reply

Dear Bel
Time about is fair play, this time you made me cry. So beautiful! I know who was telling you. It was Jesus. He has a way of even banging us on the head sometimes when he wants us to get the desires of our heart. Your right Grandpa is up there smiling on this post. God bless you little one and your other wonderful man in your life.... Mr. Carl!

posted by Justi on December 24, 2006 at 2:37 PM | link to this | reply

Bel....
You've got

posted by Corbin_Dallas on December 24, 2006 at 12:15 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you William
Yes somehow I suspect the passing of a loved one is harder for those left behind.

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 11:35 AM | link to this | reply

Bel- Thanks for sharing this with all of us. Memories we have of our
loved ones stay with us forever. One of the things my father looked forward to about passing on was to be reunited with family. He was the last of his generation, and he missed my mother something terrible. Merry Christmas to you and all of yours.

posted by I-R-William on December 24, 2006 at 11:30 AM | link to this | reply

LOL, bel, actually, my grandmother was the shy one...
my granparents were so different from each other, I don't know how their marriage lasted.

posted by shelly_b on December 24, 2006 at 11:26 AM | link to this | reply

LOL Shelly
So that is why you are shy and withdrawn; you got it from your Grandpa?

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 11:23 AM | link to this | reply

ahhhhhhh! okay.
you never know though, my grandfather was a pretty social person.  LOL

posted by shelly_b on December 24, 2006 at 11:22 AM | link to this | reply

Specialist or Corporal Shelly

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 11:21 AM | link to this | reply

Uh, bel....what's an E-4?

posted by shelly_b on December 24, 2006 at 11:19 AM | link to this | reply

LOL Shelly
I doubt they knew one another because my Grandpa was only in for the war and he left as an E-4

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 11:17 AM | link to this | reply

bel, mine was a lieutenant colonel...

here just thought I would share this story with you...

http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/shellyb.5465/396240

 

posted by shelly_b on December 24, 2006 at 11:15 AM | link to this | reply

Shelly

Mine was in during the last part.  He was one of those men who got told "The war is over, you are going home."  I can only imagine what that had to feel like for those men.

My grandpa was a tail gunner in the pacific, I don't know alot about it but I have some info on his bomber group.

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 11:06 AM | link to this | reply

Hey, I wonder if our grandfather's knew each each other?
Mine was in the air force, too.

posted by shelly_b on December 24, 2006 at 11:04 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you so much Blackpearl
Merry Christmas to you as well.    Don't kill yourself in school.

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 11:01 AM | link to this | reply

Hi, bel,

Thanks for sharing this wonderful story.  I'm glad you have such wonderful memories of your grandpa and his parties, despite the bad things that went on in your young life.  God certainly made you a strong person.  I admire that so much.  I hope you continue to heal and also have the good memories of your grandpa.  What a nice tribute to his memory for you to write this.

Also, I stopped in here to let you know that I have caught up on my comments section, from a comment you made on my "Careful Not to Judge" post a couple of weeks ago. (I finally finished with school. For now. Whew! Starting a new program in January.) I'm sorry it took me so long to comment to others' comments, because I so look forward to reading them when bloggers comment back to mine.  I think that's a big part of the blogging for me here.  Keeping the interaction going, and letting you all know that I appreciate your comments.  Thanks. :)  Merry Christmas, and Happy Birthday to your grandpa. 

posted by BlackPearl1 on December 24, 2006 at 10:46 AM | link to this | reply

Janes
Thank you so very much.

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 9:58 AM | link to this | reply

Pat
Thank you very much!  I love him very much too.

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 9:57 AM | link to this | reply

Oh what a beautiful memorial to your grandfather, bel.
I think he knows how you feel about him!  Blessings to you this Christmas Eve.

posted by JanesOpinion on December 24, 2006 at 9:23 AM | link to this | reply

Happy b'day to your grandfather. He loved you very much. :)

posted by Pat_B on December 24, 2006 at 8:20 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you Timmy!!!

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 8:01 AM | link to this | reply

It certainly is Katray!

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 8:01 AM | link to this | reply

bel
What warm memories!!! Thanks for sharing.

posted by TIMMYTALES on December 24, 2006 at 7:43 AM | link to this | reply

A beautiful, heart touching post Bel...
Yes, he will always be with you. Love is an amazing energy.  

posted by Katray2 on December 24, 2006 at 6:22 AM | link to this | reply

Opps Corbin
I misread...your parents came from families of 12...sorry!

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 5:45 AM | link to this | reply

Corbin

My grandpa was the only grandparent I really remember other than my great-grandma, he was the one and only constant in my life, I suspect when I lost him the grief was similar to that of losing a parent because of his role in my life.

I am so sorry that you didn't get to know yours, I don't know what I would have done without my grandpa.

You know you should tell some of those stories of all of those siblings...my goodness that had to be a crazy house!

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 5:44 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you for sharing this......
Both my parents were the youngest in herds of 12 in each family....so when they married and had my brother and I.....I was the younger, too.  The net result was that I didn't even see one set of grandparents....and can barely remember the other.....that is a part of life I still sorely miss........

posted by Corbin_Dallas on December 24, 2006 at 5:41 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you Wiley
Merry Christmas to you and Maroc!

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 5:38 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you Az

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 5:37 AM | link to this | reply

Maggie
Thank you, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas!!!!

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 5:37 AM | link to this | reply

Taps
Thank you very much.  Merry Christmas to you and yours!

posted by bel_1965 on December 24, 2006 at 5:36 AM | link to this | reply

Bel
I love grandpa posts.  Thank you for writing this one.  Merry Christmas to you and your family.

posted by TAPS. on December 24, 2006 at 5:15 AM | link to this | reply

Good job, bel.  Merry Christmas to you, Carl, Pam and the kitties.  God bless.

posted by MaggieMae on December 24, 2006 at 4:50 AM | link to this | reply

A beautiful dedication to the Grandpa .

posted by afzal50 on December 24, 2006 at 4:29 AM | link to this | reply

bel 1965
Beautiful story luv, Gandpa is certainly right there in your heart with you. He was a very lucky gandpa too, to have had you to care for. Merry Christmas my friend.

posted by WileyJohn on December 23, 2006 at 10:11 PM | link to this | reply

Very true Drohan
Thank you for the visit.

posted by bel_1965 on December 23, 2006 at 9:52 PM | link to this | reply

allpeople has beautiful memorries about feastany where always remembering
the child hood times always getting up early inspite of the lack of sleep happy days

posted by drohan254 on December 23, 2006 at 9:24 PM | link to this | reply

Presley

I borrowed that from a friend, it seems so much more fitting than passed on, etc...

Goodnight dear and have a wonderful holiday!!!

posted by bel_1965 on December 23, 2006 at 8:25 PM | link to this | reply

Bel
I loved how you said, "He was promoted to Heaven."  May your memories be gentle and warm tomorrow.  Goodnite! 

posted by Presley on December 23, 2006 at 8:23 PM | link to this | reply

Joe it came out just fine
I have my regrets but I also have some hysterical memories of Grandpa and I can never think of him without thinking of those as well.  Thank you.

posted by bel_1965 on December 23, 2006 at 8:23 PM | link to this | reply

And, I hope that came out the way I intended it to.

posted by Joe_Love on December 23, 2006 at 8:21 PM | link to this | reply

Oh, Wifey.
This means that Christmas Eve is a double special day for you.   I hope you don't dwell on his death today more than celebrate his life.   Hope you have a joyous Christmas.

posted by Joe_Love on December 23, 2006 at 8:20 PM | link to this | reply