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cindy7-
Boy and how. I thought I had done just that until the letter was returned and my mind was focused on all the Christmases we wouldn't have together and I admit that is not a healthy place to go, especially when it's a person who had declared he no longer wants anything to do with you because as avant guard said, the past and the future are illusory, we only have the right now, the present and the today to live life to the fullest. The present is tangible. My husband asked me last night if I'd rather been out there with "him" this Christmas and I honestly said no. He knew he could take care of me best; he'd been through it all before. It is getting worse and we both know it. But my parents are both gone now and his mother is the only mother I've got. His brother and wife came; mine are scattered amongst the 50 states. HE
is my family. I agree with everything you said. Thqnks for having the courage to tell me again!
CeeMarie 
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on December 26, 2006 at 2:23 AM
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I would encourage you to put your focus and energy on your husband at this time. You have a man who loves you. Make a choice to move forward with him. Choose to stop looking to the past where there is only pain. Remember this other man with the memories YOU want to remember it as. Then..let him go. In time, he WILL fade from your mind and thoughts and even heart. But, that will only happen when you are ready to TRULY let go for good. It must be a difficult thing, matters of the heart always are. Embrace who you have to love TODAY.
posted by
Cindy7
on December 25, 2006 at 11:15 PM
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Azfal-
Thank you for stopping by and I wish you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year in 2007!!
CeeMarie
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on December 24, 2006 at 8:58 AM
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ooops, I misspelled your NAME!
I meant to say "MariaMari
a" ; please accept my apologies!
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on December 24, 2006 at 8:56 AM
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MariaMaria
Not quite the same as MarieClaire or CeeMarie but I LIKE it! MariaMarie!! Thank you for visiting my post and I wish you and yours the best of Christmas blessings!
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on December 24, 2006 at 8:54 AM
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Merry Christmas and a happy new year.
posted by
afzal50
on December 24, 2006 at 8:49 AM
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I wish you all the best. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Have a blessed Christmas.
posted by
MariaMaria
on December 23, 2006 at 11:39 PM
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Thank you, MC56-
I will have a very blessed and very married, and happy to be married, Christmas. I was getting a little bummed over nothing.
I went to your site and left you a message there, too.
Thanks for coming by and leaving me feeling better! God's grace! btw, Cowper Inn was the name of the B&B I referenced in the verse. God's mysteries. . .
CeeMarie
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on December 22, 2006 at 8:36 PM
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CeeMarie, Have a most blessed Married Christmas
You might like to visit
Go to Making Sense of God's Mysterious Ways
posted by
MountainClimber57
on December 22, 2006 at 7:56 PM
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