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Avant Garde, M and I very much look forward to gettingpets at our next
home. He loves dogs, and Labs are such gentle souls. We plan on getting a pound puppy someday and a cat. Addy, the owners' dog at the coffee shop also had to take a backseat to the babies when they were born, before she was Cam's dog, and she was the center of attention.They don't neglect her, but they defintiely don't have the time or energy for her that they did, and honestly she's calmer now (she is a very high strung dog, not sure of her breed, some kind of Australian heeler or something).
I can see how losing Cocoa was hard for you and your wife. I hate any kind of animal cruelty and as hard as it is for me to speak up and say something is wrong in person, I finally had a word with the boyfriend of the woman who has locked her dog in her car twice. He tried to deny any knowledge at first and said that there was no dog in his car, in other words back pedal and weasel, but I know that is it his girlfriend who lives in his apartment, so I cut him off, and said, "I meant the dog your girlfriend leaves in her Honda in the parking lot. Please, don't leave your dog in the car, it could kill him". ]
I wasn't angry, I just let him know that I knew, and that other people are concerned for the wellbeing of animals, who are helpless and depend on their owners common sense and caring.
posted by
Blanche.
on September 3, 2006 at 3:06 PM
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My Goodness
If it is not madness, it is not love. Emotions are truly a wonderous and terrific phenomenon. I have, with a lot of work gotten a better grip on my own, still, I face many a day heavy laden and dripping with emotion...
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mysteria
on September 3, 2006 at 6:53 AM
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Avant
A deeply moving story that is truly cathartic in its effect that it leaves behind. Very well presented and very well taught lesson.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on September 3, 2006 at 5:26 AM
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Blonde Ambition
I guess that's the price I have to pay in order to feel as if it were worthwhile to write.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 3:56 AM
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Avant
I can see why!
You writing was very descriptive and I could feel your emotion and connection just reading it.
posted by
BlondeAmbition007
on September 3, 2006 at 3:29 AM
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Blonde Ambition
I cried like a baby writing this.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 3:22 AM
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Avant
posted by
BlondeAmbition007
on September 3, 2006 at 3:19 AM
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Mari-am
Thank you for taking the time to stop by and read this.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 2:57 AM
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The Void
You're welcome. Thank you for reading.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 2:56 AM
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Whacky
I loved reading that story. Thanks for reminding me.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 2:56 AM
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Moon
Yes, sorrow is much a part of living.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 2:55 AM
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Julia
I knew this would be hard ground to cover for the pet lovers. But, I was unprepared as well when it happened. I know your cats cherish the love you give them.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 2:55 AM
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TAPS
Nice pet names. My wife likes either food names or kids' names.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 2:54 AM
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Bright Irish
Indeed, it does. Thank you for reading.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 2:53 AM
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Blanche
Losing Cocoa was very sad. I grieved for a long time over her. I see people who treat thier pets terribly and think nothing of it. It's very sad.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 3, 2006 at 2:52 AM
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Avan garde
really ,, really nice post . thanks
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Rosetree
on September 3, 2006 at 2:00 AM
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Moving
I was taken completely. Thank you.
posted by
The_Void
on September 2, 2006 at 10:03 PM
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Gulp...she is waiting for you on the rainbow bridge.
posted by
Whacky
on September 2, 2006 at 5:10 PM
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Avant, these are really tough to read but, there is feeling that seeks expression, lessons that need teaching. MoonSpirit 
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syzygy
on September 2, 2006 at 4:52 PM
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avant--
this was very touching but I had a hard time getting through this as it brought back the painful memory of needing to euthanize my beloved 18 year old cat. It doesn't matter how much time we have with them, it's always too soon to say goodbye. But being with them in the end, as difficult as it may be for us, is a beautiful parting gift.
posted by
Julia.
on September 2, 2006 at 4:25 PM
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avant-garde, After Chipper died at age 13, I never wanted another another pet. Its too hard to see one go. Then Pitiful entered my life. Whether I wanted her or not, she was there. Maybe this time I'll go first.
posted by
TAPS.
on September 2, 2006 at 4:21 PM
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avant-garde
Your story is very sad but enforces the vision that life may end on earth but love remains thorough eternity.
posted by
BrightIrish
on September 2, 2006 at 1:48 PM
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Avant-Garde, you live your life with your eyes open to everyone around you
As the song goes, "Living with eyes closed is easy'. It's bearing witness, and living with an open heart that takes courage. Cocoa was lucky to have you.
posted by
Blanche.
on September 2, 2006 at 10:51 AM
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avant-..saying good bye to a beloved pet isnt any easier than saying
good bye to a family member or friend (of course our pets are both...:), that's for sure..
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Rumor
on September 2, 2006 at 9:14 AM
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Rcky
Butter's doing quite well lately. He doesn't seem to be in any pain. But, he isn't a complainer, either. Thanks for offering.
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avant-garde
on September 2, 2006 at 5:34 AM
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Rcky
Thank you once again for reading. I promise this is the last sad one for awhile.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 2, 2006 at 5:33 AM
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Avant....
Another beautiful and terribly sad story. You seem to have had a special connection with her as she showed you she was still near in spirit. I sometimes feel the presence of some of my animals that have passed on. It is a bit comforting. You are a sponge for life's lessons Avant as every situation in our life is an opportunity for growth. One more thing....you have to stop making me cry with your stories. LOL.
PS. How is Butterscotch doing? Anytime you feel that she could use a healing please let me know!
posted by
RckyMtnActivist
on September 2, 2006 at 5:05 AM
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Tanga
Even though we know death comes, it is always something that comes when least expected.
posted by
avant-garde
on September 2, 2006 at 5:04 AM
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This was
heartbreaking. Thanks for sharing
posted by
Tanga
on September 2, 2006 at 5:01 AM
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