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posted by
anglofinspirtion
on January 21, 2006 at 6:32 PM
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Oh Angela, It sure IS the way it is. . .
After all my fine talk, I gave in BUT there was an uncanny event. . . I sent an informative e-mail after all. I haven't heard back but I gave instructions not to give up his silence. I will blog about it on Don't You
Wish. Ang, I understand, I do. Love is not equitable. It is not fair. Love hurts to the core. Be as strong as you can be and I will do my best, too.
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on January 21, 2006 at 6:10 PM
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If you haven't been there, you can't know....
This is very true! The hurt is oft times unbearable, I myself have been for days now considering contacting my "problem". I haven't as of yet and reading your post reminds me why I can't go down this road again and what awaits me if I do. It will only hurt worse to have this door slammed again.
Stay strong and I will, too! Angela
posted by
anglofinspirtion
on January 21, 2006 at 12:25 PM
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Thanks for stopping by and giving me a read, Nan!
I really DO have a terrific husband. He is a rock for me -- as in Gibraltor, not the kind around your neck!!
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on January 21, 2006 at 8:41 AM
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cee
interesting reading, sounds like you have a great hubby... I share your love of the Whole Foods market- truly wonderful places
posted by
Nanaroo
on January 21, 2006 at 7:43 AM
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Dear Maggie-
I must seem to talk like a teenager about this topic. It's the only place I DO talk about it, so I am therapeutically blogging it out. I hope to make some sense of it all some day. In the meantime, it's a neverending surprise each day. Life rocks and so do you, Maggie.
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on January 20, 2006 at 9:09 PM
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Cee,
I know you have to take responsibility for your part too, but you seem to have this man on your mind all the time and I just have to question if he's earned it. When he told you it could never be, that he had to return to his spouse he had sworn to be true to, was there someone else he may have had an interest in?
I'm a curious one and I've heard a lot about MEN! haha
Cee, I think you're wonderful and I look forward to the next chapter.
posted by
MaggieMae
on January 20, 2006 at 6:47 PM
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Dear FactorFiction,
You are married to your kindred spirit - you be travelin' together! I woulda said that of my marriage until last year, too. Everyone else we know believed it! But I hope you keep reading! We really did share a love story in all its glory and not-so shiny ending. . .
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on January 20, 2006 at 2:59 PM
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Thanks, maggie
Wow, what can I say! All to be revealed. I will keep in mind not to villianize Mike. I share the responsibility of my actions, too. He was/is a good man and an honorable one although we got caught up in this, like a snowball rolling downhill. I must say that it was sheer fun for so long, a good 6 months. Stay tuned is my best advice for now! Thanks for sticking with me!
Bless your heart!
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on January 20, 2006 at 2:54 PM
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It is very hard to keep from expressing oneself sometimes
and I don't think it was a coincidence either. That's all I have to say since I know nothing of affairs and can't give advice on handling emotions.
posted by
FactorFiction
on January 20, 2006 at 1:17 PM
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Hi, Cee,
I don't have to tell you how proud I am of you. You did good! You know, sending that card would have only caused you more pain. I'm happy for you that the machine was down for repairs, or whatever. You were not supposed to send that card.
I surely wouldn't want to see you cause yourself more pain, it's not worth it. I believe, Cee, that if Mike had wanted you, he would have found a way to have you. Is it possible that he didn't have the balls to stand up to her, or that maybe he had too much to lose (materially, or monitarily) if he divorced her. Why would that have been more important to him than having you? I've just been thinking about this man. Were you just a fling that got out of hand? You're much too good for him and you got the prize, Jay. I think you did the right thing by thinking twice about sending the card. I'm proud of you. xoxoM
posted by
MaggieMae
on January 20, 2006 at 12:59 PM
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