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Temple
I understand....words are so easy to tangle....as are feelings....as are needs....and sleep, damn sleep - I took two Ambien last night and slept 9 hours! My eyes no longer burn and I feel human...that stuff is wonderful but I can only take it every couple of days as I am chemical resitant.  I got the phrase from Dr. Phil - I like it; it is something I long for, a soft place to land - mine tends more to be a place, the lake...yours, perhaps, has to be the ocean. Yes, I have 3 email addresses that I can remember! Later.

posted by Krisles on July 16, 2005 at 11:24 AM | link to this | reply

That heading made no sense....instead of me asking him for that, he asked me.....let me do this for you...

posted by Temple on July 16, 2005 at 11:17 AM | link to this | reply

Once upon a time, a man actually asked me to let him to that for him...

In a not to distant time....he wanted to be that for me, then when I did....he said, he wasn't capable of being needed that much and he loved me too much that those things scared him.  We always said this exact phrase....be my soft place to land.  Now, he's gone with someone who doesn't need him at all, and he was the first man I ever let myself need.  I wonder.  I've been angry lately, but I still miss him.  I hate that shit.

Do you ever sleep?  I have your email, finally after that (you have more than one email address, too, no?) and will write you back soon.

posted by Temple on July 16, 2005 at 11:16 AM | link to this | reply

Straightforward
Yes we do have stereotypes, but that is surprising since I always write from such a female perspective. Perhaps it depends on which of my blogs you've read...until yesterday, when I got rid of it, my most popular blog was in R&S but still, even in the others....that's interesting and actually, I'm glad if I can come across that way. Thanks for reading.

posted by Krisles on July 16, 2005 at 7:52 AM | link to this | reply

Strange but until now I thought you were a male!
Don't we have our stereotypes?

posted by Straightforward on July 16, 2005 at 1:11 AM | link to this | reply

posted by Bel_ on July 15, 2005 at 9:11 PM | link to this | reply

posted by Bel_ on July 15, 2005 at 9:11 PM | link to this | reply

Wiley
You, guy, could write a book about how to do these things! I know you could....you are the man!!!

posted by Krisles on July 15, 2005 at 9:10 PM | link to this | reply

Joe_Love
Yeah! You need to add these things to your list! Most specifically "takes care of her"....... also, "massages feet while watching movies together on sofa", and "comes up behind her and nuzzles neck"...a lot....hmmmm....I could keep going...

posted by Krisles on July 15, 2005 at 9:09 PM | link to this | reply

Spitfire
I wish I knew what it was like.....sad to say, this was wishful talkin'...the last time I had a man take care of me was.....hmmmm, I can't remember but probably for any length of time it was my daddy....sure would like to know what it felt like....I'm ready!! I've been doin' all the taking care of and I'm so tired....I think that's where this came from...today is my anniversary...hmmm.

posted by Krisles on July 15, 2005 at 9:06 PM | link to this | reply

Somebody's been watching
chickflicks again!!!! *grin*

posted by Joe_Love on July 15, 2005 at 7:17 PM | link to this | reply

Krisles
Uh, you talkin' to me girl? Sure I will, dun, great. Hey thanx for askin' too luv-;)

posted by WileyJohn on July 15, 2005 at 6:41 PM | link to this | reply

Krisles,
It really is a great feeling to be taken care of, isn't it?

posted by SpitFire70 on July 15, 2005 at 6:27 PM | link to this | reply