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MayB
if you only experience self doubt as a writer on blogit street...not to worry, it will pass. Like you said, you know who you are.
posted by
MysticGmekeepr
on June 11, 2005 at 4:17 PM
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May B
I don't think anyone here is worth knocking your confidence over. Here, there, and anywhere. I should know - my bottom paddler contains great wisdom.
posted by
Rupert_Bottom_Paddler
on June 9, 2005 at 3:43 AM
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Rupert ... to put it crudely.............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................. shit stirring?
posted by
Azur
on June 9, 2005 at 3:37 AM
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Terpgirl30, I don't worry about it much at all. As for people expecting more of me, a few years ago I learnt to recognise that sometimes people are doing all they can at that particular moment. When I am in form I am capable of a great deal and that has been proven but at this time I can't cope with as much and must take things quietly -this will pass. And then just watch me ;-). (I will replyto your mail in due course - i did appreciate it
posted by
Azur
on June 9, 2005 at 3:36 AM
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MayB
You say these are games that people play...I would be more inclined to think these games are just nuggets; the type you may find bobbing up and down in a neglected toilet. Bottom paddling?
posted by
Rupert_Bottom_Paddler
on June 9, 2005 at 3:32 AM
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fwmystic, haha, to insult my writing is to cut me to the quick. No I don't take any of this too seriously.
I suppose I thought of blogit as less of a marketplace and more of a place where one can write anything they wish. I see it as a break from the high standards I must maintain at all times in my work and while I don't want to read rubbish, I think there are enough forums in life already where we must achieve excellence.
posted by
Azur
on June 9, 2005 at 3:28 AM
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Hey, at least YOu weren't accused of being a commie ....
pinko, child molesting, animal mutilating baby killer who pees the bed and is the victim of ill breeding like I was. This too shall pass.
posted by
fwmystic
on June 8, 2005 at 9:07 PM
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God Bless you! And get back to form....
posted by
Elan27
on June 7, 2005 at 10:29 PM
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I'm really sorry to hear about your friend and to learn of the additional insult to your writing. How absurd. Sad how people who should know better still cannot think before they speak...on the other hand, getting knocked around a bit can be just the kind of jolt you need to become even better, but it sounds as if you have very sound perspective on all of this now. I look forward to reading whatever you write.
posted by
UsualSuspect
on June 7, 2005 at 9:56 PM
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I've been wanting to write since I saw some comments from yesterday.
You and I have spoken. Blog-it isn't a job to you. It's a hobby, and a testing water for new skills. You can see you stretching as you write---digging deep on things that most people left unspoken.
Yesterday you spoke in a very heartfelt way about something that was bothering you, something many of us fear: the death of a friend. Still, after pouring your heart out, and your frustration, someone you don't even know tells you that more is expected of you. The absolute gall.
I've shared my writing experiences with people so people can see what it's like to get out there, and some of the ways that can be used to approach it all. The minute I feel that someone expects it of me, I'm done. That part of my writing here is volunteer/public service. I can't imagine someone telling me I have an obligation to do that because I'm a professional *anything.* I've paid my money, as have you, and we have the right to discuss things we wish. I feel really bad that you were made to feel like more is expected of you.
You do plenty, and you are plenty. Even when you don't think you have ideas to share, you do it. We've all come to the same spot you're at now. Many people can't put those feelings into words. You've done that. You don't need to do more.
MayB...do what brings you joy, give yourself time to honor your friend and your losses. That's all we should expect of one another.
Kim
posted by
terpgirl30
on June 7, 2005 at 4:54 PM
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MayB sometimes dealing with the bad leads to better things
with what you have dealt with in the past week, is just that, the past and better days are ahead.
So charge on full speed ahead!!
posted by
scoop
on June 7, 2005 at 4:41 PM
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MayB
Sorry for the loss of your friend luv. I too have been affected by the negativity of that blog, but I am posting anyway in the hopes that I may continue to be one of the "poorer writers" in the top 100 and maybe annoy somebody. lol Have a lovely rest of the week and stay positive luv.
posted by
WileyJohn
on June 7, 2005 at 1:32 PM
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So if there's a "circle" of serious writers here, why can't they organize?
On or off Blogit, nothing keeping you from conducting your own "Writers' Circle", as long as you didn't violate the rules. For instance, if there's someone you don't want to read, just don't, and if someone's comments are too off-subject, just delete them.
You know, editing?!
However, this is a blog site open to everyone with the gelt, so yo're going to get us as well as the "real" authors.
posted by
majroj
on June 7, 2005 at 12:44 PM
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MayB
So, let me get this straight. You have umpteen real life, honest to God, real money irons in the fire and you feel doubt about blogging something
worthwhile?
posted by
Talion
on June 7, 2005 at 12:39 PM
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MayB
You have no need to doubt yourself... when people set out to make others feel bad - it is largely due to their own insecurities. Chin up!
posted by
Transcendental_Child
on June 7, 2005 at 12:18 PM
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This comment hit home MayB...
..."Self-doubt is deadly for a writer." It's my most common affliction. It's so good to hear from you and though the games continue here..so does the great writing..although without you it's definitely not the same. You offered that knowledge and motivation on a daily basis..I'm glad I was able to read you. You have given much of yourself..maybe it's time to give more to yourself...I'd feel selfish if I said I want ya back! You have to do what feels right for you MayB..and dealing with a death as well is mighty tough stuff.
posted by
ginnieb
on June 7, 2005 at 12:05 PM
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Maybe,
don't let anyone change how you write what you write here. And i'm glad teh funeral was what you needed. i've been to far too many the last few years, myself. I've always preferred the ones where I laughed at least a little.
posted by
MerryAnne
on June 7, 2005 at 12:02 PM
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