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Man-boy, I agree with you that people are just trying to get through life as best they can. I used to be far less understanding of that than I am now. Not that I'll spend a lot of time listening when people are being idiotic or ranting but it is easier now to see from where it springs.

posted by Azur on March 17, 2005 at 11:15 AM | link to this | reply

Meringue, I guess this is a place where people get away with tantrums more than in real life

posted by Azur on March 17, 2005 at 11:12 AM | link to this | reply

I agree with you ,Mayb....
Attention-seeking suits a child,but then we all need to grow up a bit.....Events and feeling cannot replace talent.

posted by Meringue on March 16, 2005 at 9:44 PM | link to this | reply

Hi MayB!

I usually meet new writers because they stop and leave a comment on my posts.

I also will click on those who are commenting on my favorite writers.

When I first came here my readership was about double what it is now. My 'mission' fell by the way but I have kept writing because I do like it here. I have always dreamed that something as unifying as these networks would arise.

As for issues, well, I try not to be a foghorn leghorn type and try to foster an understanding that we are all trying to struggle through the cosmic gumbo as best we can. Some of us have discovered that living the examined life is the life for us.

Maybe, formerly we were content to keep our writing in journals, but here we a way to make our dreams and opinions known without trampling anyone else.

We must also be able to give the other credit for having the ability to come to their own conclusions without the need for others to agree or disagree with them.

Debate is needed, but not mere derogatory gainsaying and gameplaying.

Cheers! Readership will pick up. Manboy

posted by man-boy on March 16, 2005 at 7:48 PM | link to this | reply

John McNab I think it is fair to say that those with "issues" are not always the most open-minded people. Not that there is anything wrong with having strong opinions. Confused? I am.

posted by Azur on March 16, 2005 at 7:24 PM | link to this | reply

MayB
I would think that not having an 'issue' would mean you would look at things from a more forgiving and logical point of view, MayB.

posted by johnmacnab on March 16, 2005 at 6:20 PM | link to this | reply

This Biggie wishes you good luck with your further endeavours! Take care!

VOYAGER9940

posted by Voyager9940 on March 16, 2005 at 3:35 PM | link to this | reply

Tapsel_T
I try to focus on positive things--learning, etc but I do know that people prefer drama and stories about challenges

posted by Azur on March 15, 2005 at 9:18 PM | link to this | reply

Well, MayB, if one is going to write for others to read, they must have something to write about that is of interest.    Problems of life is always a biggy in drawing people.   But, if one doesn't have any problems, there are other things to write about if one looks around.     Usually, a person without problems just has to wait a while and some will show up.

posted by TAPS. on March 15, 2005 at 7:49 AM | link to this | reply

Making hay while the sun shines--a sense of humor during tough times is always good to see

posted by Azur on March 14, 2005 at 4:21 PM | link to this | reply

MayB,
I am not a horse lover myself.

posted by FactorFiction on March 14, 2005 at 4:15 PM | link to this | reply

Big issues aren't required...it's always nice to see someone overcome challenges though, no matter what the size.

posted by DarrkeThoughts on March 14, 2005 at 2:59 PM | link to this | reply

Correction: Equanimous

posted by Azur on March 14, 2005 at 2:13 PM | link to this | reply

Factorfiction, - lol - you can try but I am abnormally equanamious

posted by Azur on March 14, 2005 at 2:07 PM | link to this | reply

MayB
Y'want I should insultcha or sumthin'? Don't want you to feel left out.

posted by FactorFiction on March 14, 2005 at 2:01 PM | link to this | reply

LOL! MayB,
I suspect that I'll need a neck brace by the time all is said and done.. ;)

posted by MerryAnne on March 14, 2005 at 1:59 PM | link to this | reply

MerryAnne, I just glanced at the car crash and drove on. Too many gawkers already

posted by Azur on March 14, 2005 at 1:56 PM | link to this | reply

MayB,
lots of folks like to read blogs by people who don't have issues. But we are only human and can't resist gawking at the car crash that is Blogit over the past few days. :)

posted by MerryAnne on March 14, 2005 at 1:54 PM | link to this | reply