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MelodyStar - Writing out your emotions would be good even if
you never post them. Looking at your thoughts and fears and sadness in writing helps. Write a letter to God aking "Why?" Write of your anger, your depression, your inability to move and act, your impotence. It will help. It will also help others going through the same thing. It will help those who have never been through such catastrophy to understand and empathize with you and share their feelings with you.
posted by
TAPS.
on September 22, 2004 at 9:18 AM
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I am sorry Melody - I can only imagine how tough things are right now... plug along my dear, things will surely get better - you are strong - you will push through - that sweet spirit of yours will triumph!! ~
posted by
MariVye
on September 22, 2004 at 9:08 AM
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Not so good today but thank you so much for asking.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 22, 2004 at 9:06 AM
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How are you doing?
posted by
MariVye
on September 22, 2004 at 8:52 AM
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Tapsel as a matter of fact I went through Hurricane Opal I have a post abut it.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 22, 2004 at 8:36 AM
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Tapsel, I am not handling things real well right now. I am at a lost for words!!!!!!!! I dont know what do do how how to handle what I am feeling. I think I will write a post aout it. It might make me feel better. All I can do is pray. Do you know who Joyve Myers is? I sat up this mrong and watched her. She is a wioder speaker about God. Watch her sometimes . Thnak you for you kind words.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 22, 2004 at 8:35 AM
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MelodyStar - What a gripping and sad post.
I hope that this is just a once-in-a-lifetime experience for you and that your area will never again have to face such an extreme event. I'm glad you are safe, but it must be horrible for you to look around you and see such loss and pain.
posted by
TAPS.
on September 22, 2004 at 8:30 AM
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SYMPHONY
I could sure use a hug! You are the sweetest. You care so much. Thank you for all your kindness. I think I have had enough of everything I need a break,
posted by
Melodystar
on September 21, 2004 at 1:34 PM
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Melodystar
after reading your heartfelt comment to E
I want to run to you and give you a massive hug..................I am so sorry, no words can ever make you feel better
but please know that I am thinking of you and keep sending prayers your way..................take care
look after yourself..............
posted by
_Symphony_
on September 21, 2004 at 1:29 PM
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Evangeline2998, They would not refill my meds! I was so mad! I took what I had and did allot of praying! The pain was so much it was all I could do not to scream at everyone. I did do alot of complaing . I just wanted to get away from the pain going on long trips with my dogs and husband running the the hurricane was not fun. At one point I forgot what I had taken for pain . Now I am paying for it twice as bad. It huts just to put my feet on the floor. No one is here to help . Everyone needs moore hlpe than me so I sit queitly and suffer and pray. Thank you so much for stopping by.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 21, 2004 at 1:25 PM
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And pain too!
As Ivan approached we were in a frenzy to get my meds, which expired just this week. So the insurance had to okay and early refill--it was a horror. I cannot imagine what you are enduring. If I had to do this pain thing in the heat, without water, without bathing...I'd never make it. I take over 25 pills a day--just to function. I hate it. As for insurance agents--we pay over 2000 a year for minimum insurance, and State Farm is so far the only reputable insurer. At the start of hurricane season, I wanted to up the insurance to replacement cost; he has never called me back, from spring until now (I've called repeatedly). I know he is waiting the season out. Bastard.
posted by
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on September 21, 2004 at 12:31 PM
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I am so glad you are ok
but I feel for all those who are not, and have lost everything..............take care and look after yourself
posted by
_Symphony_
on September 21, 2004 at 11:57 AM
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Marivye
Thank you so much. We all have to think about it.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 21, 2004 at 9:50 AM
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Thanks for telling it like it is - I'll discuss with my hubbie about contributing to the cause - hang in there sweetie ~
posted by
MariVye
on September 21, 2004 at 8:55 AM
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Wildwoman
Everyone has a right to whine. We just all whine differently. Thank you.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 21, 2004 at 7:37 AM
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Melody
I have no right to whine........I'm glad you're alive.
posted by
Wildwoman_Laloba
on September 21, 2004 at 7:33 AM
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Evangeline2998
So may people here without water or food. They have the salvation army set up in places. They just can not handle it all. My family has enough we got some stuff before we left, but we can only do so much. There are peopl here that have children that have nothing to drink or eat. I feel so sad . I am giving all I can. The news is comming through that they have found more people. They stayed instead of leaving. Thank you so much for you kindness.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 21, 2004 at 5:34 AM
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Gheghee
We are ok Thnak God! My house isnt but it is still standing so I feel blessed. This makes me all so weary. There are times when I just sit and cry. Its hard to keep your chin up. Thank you so much for your concern.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 21, 2004 at 5:29 AM
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Sptifire70
Thank you so much for donating, that was ver kind of you. There are allot of people here going without. God bless you for such a kind gesture.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 21, 2004 at 5:27 AM
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O M G. Melodystar, this is awful.
The post is great, but o man! What devistation! I hope you and yours are ok.
posted by
Gheeghee
on September 21, 2004 at 4:59 AM
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I was thinking about you the whole time and still am!
I hope all is okay. I donated blankets, pillows, canned food, and clothing to the Red Cross 2 weeks ago. It's not much, but money is so tight. I just hope it will help some. Keep the faith!!
posted by
SpitFire70
on September 21, 2004 at 12:19 AM
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My husband was the same as your parents
When it looked like Ivan was coming for us, he would not evacuate. New Orleans doesn't drain--a hurricane would mean 8-20 feet of water in the streets for six months (as fast as the pumps can pump). I also noticed that Ivan is not on the news any longer. I would like to drive out to Pensacola and bring some things; I have tons of water here; 8 plastic rolls of handiwipes--they must have something set up for donations. After the Red Cross and United Way screwed the victims of 9/11, I have lost faith in them. There isn't even a local drive here in NO! For God's sake!
posted by
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on September 20, 2004 at 10:58 PM
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No doubt
So very True...please reach out everybody. Florida needs your help!
Serena
posted by
Serina
on September 20, 2004 at 7:38 PM
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Ca88andra
It is really bad in some areas. It really amazes me the devation.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 20, 2004 at 6:19 PM
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Melodystar, we watched the pictures on the news. It looks absolutely devastating. Even my boys rang me to ask if I had seen the damage done. My thoughts are with you and everyone else there.
posted by
Ca88andra
on September 20, 2004 at 4:11 PM
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Littlemspickles
Thank you.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 20, 2004 at 1:53 PM
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WHAMENATOR
I am still going as long as they still want me.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 20, 2004 at 1:49 PM
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Melodystar
Take care...
posted by
littlemspickles
on September 20, 2004 at 1:48 PM
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WHAMENATOR
Sounds like my time working for the goverment. I was the same way! Thank you for being so kind.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 20, 2004 at 1:47 PM
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Melody.....how has all of this affected your big Gig?
You are my favorite Blogit MovieStar, although I am our favorite Drama Queen!
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on September 20, 2004 at 1:45 PM
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Melody, insurance does not replace the irreplaceables.
Vera is the sweetest woman in the world, with a kid in the military. She is very kind to me. And very dear and caring overall. Until her prejudices come out...
She refers to ALL Arabs as "Camels" and does not understand that there are a lot of people who carry other Heritages that make this country their own and consider themselves to be first and foremost Americans, and Christians, and are very proud and happy (and defensive by necessity) to be here.
In April, I will have 9 years on the Job......I don't even attempt to argue or debate anymore (the pig thing) but I have also learned to walk away. I am an outsider.
Too educated to be a grunt, and too obstinant/hard-headed to want to be a Supervisor.
I know you were not accusing me....I am just so frustrated in the world in which I walk.
Gotta come up with a Plan B..........I am such an outsider!!!!!!!!!! An Alien!!!!!
Melody, more prayers sent your way!!!!!!!!!
Love,
Miriam
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on September 20, 2004 at 1:35 PM
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Whamenator
I know you were not disagreeing with me. Thank you so much for yoour kindness and prayers. I was just letting you know how I felt about what your coworkers had said, not you. I only know you to be kind and sweet. Thank you once again.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 20, 2004 at 1:18 PM
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I AM NOT DISAGREEING WITH YOU!!!!
HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I SAID I WANT OUT OF THERE!!!!!
WHAT I SAID AS I WALKED OUT WAS, "WELL THAT IS WHY THEY HAVE HURRICANE INSURANCE, SO I DON'T THINK IT IS ALWAYS ON 'THE TAXPAYERS' AND INSURANCE DOES NOT REPLACE THE IRREPLACEABLES!"
Never try to teach a pig to sing...it wastes your time and annoys the pig!
Love, and more prayers,
Miriam
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on September 20, 2004 at 1:08 PM
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Unicorn
There is just to much devastion here. All we can do is pray for all these people here. Thank you so very much.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 20, 2004 at 1:03 PM
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WHAMENATOR
Thank you so much, but I have to say to your coworkers, we pay a high price for insurance here. We also pay in the way of doc stamps . Plus we all have very high dedtuctibles that come from our pockets. How about complaing about paying taxes for those who wont get up off their lazy butts to go get a job. I feel so bad for all these people here no one here asked for them we just happened to be in the way. Just like if you were to get in the way of a car or train . People who make statements like that make me very angry.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 20, 2004 at 1:01 PM
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MELODY....THANKS FOR SHARING, THROUGH YOUR TEARS!!!!!!
I was kind of offended at some of my co-workers, people I like overall, but who made the brilliant statement that something to the effect that because you choose to live in Florida, WE (taxpayers) have to pay to replace your house every year.
Yeah, someone actually said that, and had three others agree with them! I grinded my teeth and left the room and let the Great Minds finish their brilliant commentary.
My heart and my prayers go out to you!!!!!
Love,
Miriam
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on September 20, 2004 at 12:54 PM
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good post
my mother in law, who lives in Fla. has been suffering lots of damage to her home. She has been evacuated twice in all this mess already and they say that Florida was expecting a total of 20 hurricanes this year-how can they possibly take more!? My heart goes out to her and the many families suffering much more loss. My prayers are with them all.
posted by
PastorB
on September 20, 2004 at 12:53 PM
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Mark2556
I am hanging in here, it's so hard trying to get back to normal, I am sure you know exactly what I am talking about. Thank you. I know you have been through you share also.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 20, 2004 at 12:40 PM
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Melody ~ I think most people that haven't experienced a hurricane or the aftermath have no idea exactly how destructive they really are, not only to property and nature, but to normal lifestyles...almost everything a person takes for granted is taken away.
The media ALWAYS blows town after the first few days, and the devestation lingers on for weeks and months.
It's ugly, ugly business, but things will get better. Hang in there!
posted by
mark2556
on September 20, 2004 at 12:31 PM
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what an awful story this is, i am so sorry you will always remember this
i was really really worried and the weather chanel hedre was on all the time
i am relieved you are aline and i feel so sad for evverything you have lost
tallkk to me if you need to get something off your chest
love always xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
posted by
hugz_n_kisses
on September 20, 2004 at 12:29 PM
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melody, this seems worse than anyone not associated with it thought...
posted by
scriber
on September 20, 2004 at 12:22 PM
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Ariala,
I feel blessed I hope people look around and see how blessed they are. Thank you so much for your concern and your prayers. It has been greatly appreciated.
posted by
Melodystar
on September 20, 2004 at 11:56 AM
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Thank you for this heart-felt post...I'm glad you and your family are safe,
but I have friends and associates in these areas and I have no idea how they are. It's very scary...
posted by
Ariala
on September 20, 2004 at 11:51 AM
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