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Oh Abuelita, that makes my heart hurt, too.
I'm so sorry. I wish I could be there to help. I wouldn't be able to talk to them anymore either. Anyone who can throw an animal away is not someone I want in my life. All I can do to counter than anger and sorrow is advocate when I can. Forgive me if I was too zealous. :)
posted by
Temple
on May 5, 2004 at 3:32 PM
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Temple, lighting that candle, yes.
As I said, the neighbors threw him away before I could do anything. One moment a complaint and request and then four hours later, he was gone, to the Pound, to probably be put down. I cannot talk to those neighbors anymore, as my heart hurts when I just catch a glimpse of their truck in the driveway.
And yes, cats inside, please, forever and ever amen.
posted by
benzinha
on May 5, 2004 at 12:18 AM
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Oh Benziha, I'm so sorry!
That really rips me up to hear. Maybe he would respond to your loving touch and you could just work with him until you found him another home? I'm afraid pit bulls do not have high adoptability numbers because of the amount of problems that there are and bans on them. There is a dog, looks just like a pit bull, but doesn't get caught up in the ban. I'll find the name and tell you, if you want it. Maybe you could just foster the dog, tell your landlord he's a whatever. Don't let him be put to sleep. I feel so bad for that kitty there, too. My aunt's cat was just mauled to death by dogs. If people would just please keep kitties inside where they are safe. They are not any less happy, I can attest to that because of my own and other's I've placed. The Humane Society has a huge campaign going on this because not only do the cats live, on average, 3 years outside (as opposed to 14-17 indoors)...but illness is rampant, there is damage to the ecosystem, they are tortured and killed by unhappy neighbors who do not want animals in their yards. Step in for the puppy, if only to find him another foster home. I will get you any information on dog training and pit bulls I have in my resources. We have to help, Abuelita.
I guess many nerves touched here. Hearts, too. :) On that note, this beautiful day finds me with tears and sadness...missing my boy...trying to avoid eviction...I think I'll go see my little friend down at the Bay. Maddie, I named her. Blue water, white boats, cool breeze, a latte, and Maddie. Small repreive for Temple. Light a candle for Billy, okay?
posted by
Temple
on May 1, 2004 at 3:17 PM
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I love kittins
posted by
FoxyBlue
on May 1, 2004 at 7:41 AM
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Temple, diplomacy is always a good thing. As for saving pets, I had a
puppy next door that they adopted because he, the renter, wanted to 'train' a dog. The puppy ate everything, pooped on his floors, knocked over the garbage and with a visiting older dog, attacked the family's other pet, a cat, who died. They asked me to take the puppy, I cannot have pit bulls nor their mixes says my landlord.....he was not the guilty party in the cat attack.....and when I couldn't take him, they threw him away.
I fear that he will be put down. "Train" him, my old grandmother's butt. I am upset today. There is an emptiness in the next garden over, that touches me too deeply. He was a decent young dog, not vicious, not bad, not untrainable, not deserving of their betrayal of him.
Sorry, you touched a nerve with this post.
posted by
benzinha
on May 1, 2004 at 2:01 AM
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Moondawg
Thank you also, for stopping by and commenting. I'm open to other points of view, but it is true presentation marks the difference between a debate and an argument. In that vein, productive comments or compliments are always more welcome, indeed.
posted by
Temple
on May 1, 2004 at 12:06 AM
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My sweet kid cargo...
You are so right. The drama of the real world is overwhelming. And, you know I will.
I will miss seeing your name here. I hope you are still able to write and read once you get settled. Kisses.
posted by
Temple
on April 30, 2004 at 11:45 PM
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Hi ME....who I will call Daphnee, because it's easier and I like that name.
You are too fucking cute. You know that, right? It's whoop-ass love, but we can open up a can of whatever you want. I'm glad you are still reading. I am lucky to have people who love and support me, I just wish more of them were in the same city....and one in particular in the same country.
I called you tonight. From the bay. Bad night.
posted by
Temple
on April 30, 2004 at 11:35 PM
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Hillbilly, some people just are sad, their lives make them broken.
And then they don't know how to be, to act, to be generous of spirit. Don't let anyone make you feel bad for trying to stand up for yourself and be honorable. I blocked her, don't feel bad. It's negative and toxic and not worth getting upset about. You tried to be the bigger person about it.
You always blame Billy...you're so funny. Billy wouldn't be crying, he'd be pulling me by the hand going...come on, Mama. We'll figure it out. She is cute cute. I was over there tonight, but she was inside (the GARAGE where they keep her! So mean.) I named her Maddie. She lives on Manhatten street. I was crying, it's true. I have to find her a home. I wish I could keep her.
Feel free to use up as much space in my comments as you want. Thanks for your support!
posted by
Temple
on April 30, 2004 at 11:29 PM
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I'm with you
life is to short for petty bickering. If it's not constructive critisim then I have no time for it. I make a real effort to thank every person that leaves a comment on one of my posts, even if it is critical as long as the commenter leaves suggestion on how I can correct the problem. If they don't want to be bothered with doing so then. I can't be bothered with replying to them. So thank you much for your comment and stopping by.
posted by
Moondawg
on April 30, 2004 at 5:26 PM
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Sweet girl you are right to rise above these blogit antics...
the drama of the real world is demanding enough without swatting at gnats. Stroke the kitty for me, okay Mama?
posted by
FreeManWalking
on April 30, 2004 at 2:55 PM
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Do you want me to open a can of kick ass? I really don not like anyone that is hurting you....
Of course you won..... You are an angel surrounded by loving friends... not evryone is as lucky as you!
Love.
posted by
ME..
on April 30, 2004 at 2:29 PM
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Thanks so much for the great blog!
I realize you didn't write this for me...but I had been pounded so hard I was reviewing everything in my head to see where I strayed off the path with passionflower...I even went as far as writing her an email this morning and asking to call a truce. I was not able to do that. She has blocked me. I feel kinda violated Temple. Feel like I have had my freedom of speech taken away! LOL! enough of this!!!!
I will make a comment using billy_cargos words..."if I were a woman I'd be crying!" That's how i felt when i read about the kitty. There is a country song that says "I didn't cry when old yaller died...at least not in front of my friends."
Sorry for using up so much comment space! Felt good talking to you...or writing to you...or whatever it is i have done...now i know why i am lost!
Good luck with the job interview!!!!!!!!!!!!!
posted by
lost_hillbilly
on April 30, 2004 at 2:06 PM
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beedle, no I can't bring her home
I don't know if she's had shots and my female cat has been through a lot in the past years. She's finally solid, so I'll have to go visit.
As far as commenters, I still would like to hear what people have to say. All comments are welcome.
posted by
Temple
on April 30, 2004 at 8:56 AM
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Nuff said, and nuff said well, including commenters. let's go back to writing.
...and is the kitty now yours?
posted by
beedle
on April 30, 2004 at 5:05 AM
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Shavonne....boy as in, the boy I love....
I just started calling him Boy in my post and it stuck. I hope all your friends, and my Boy, come home soon and safe. I want the whole damn thing over with.
posted by
Temple
on April 30, 2004 at 2:33 AM
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Sorry to hear about your son going to Iraq. I've many friends that went to Iraq. Some have come back and others are still there. I only hope they all return soon and safely.
posted by
Shavonne
on April 30, 2004 at 2:29 AM
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Yep, there can never be enough wenches!!
Thank you so much for your lovely comments and feedback
posted by
Moohahaha
on April 29, 2004 at 11:04 PM
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Temple
When I was in college, I read a book called "Things Fall Apart" by Chinua Achebe. This was over sixteen years ago, but all of a sudden, a line from it popped in my head. I don't remember it exactly, but this is close enough. 'The sun will shine on those who stand before it shines on those who kneel under them.' Keep standing tall regardless of what peole say or any obstacles you face.
posted by
Talion
on April 29, 2004 at 10:33 PM
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Buxomwench, I can't explain how refreshing you are!
Me thinks we should have co-written! I see you reviewed the full situation (except what was deleted) and have put thought into your response. Thank you. Very well said and written. I agree wholeheartedly with your assessment. You have been a wonderful addition to my comments page. :) It's always great to have another wench in the house. ;)
posted by
Temple
on April 29, 2004 at 10:04 PM
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You have raised some very fine points here ...
I've been pondering all of these things, & I think my basic take is this: being true to oneself, being honest and being respectful of others need not be mutually exclusive terms and undertakings. Also, as you say here, asking for respect as an inherent human right and seeking "stroking" are not necessarily the same thing - one is a mark of self-esteem, the other shows a potential lack of such. Constructive criticism is a wonderful thing when wielded with sensitivity and respect - if not, it has the potential to become abuse. I think that some politically correct bizo has gone too far and can indeed lead to blandness & ridiculousness rather than healthy honesty & often humour, yet the heart of it is there for a very worthy purpose. I think being blatantly politically incorrect & encouraging others to do the same can be just as cookie cutter-ish as not daring to speak out for fear of offending others. 'Tis all in the balance, methinks.
PS:Allowing your heart to be touched by those in need is a very good way to expend one's energy indeed 
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posted by
Moohahaha
on April 29, 2004 at 9:56 PM
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