Three questions, three answers...3 by 3. I found out not long ago that my husband is cheating on me with a 22 year old girl. I want to know how serious it is and should I file for divorce? My heart is really hurting and I don't know if I can get over this. Will I be able to stay married to him after all and my heart will heal or not? —Rochelle Roan: The relationship with this woman will not last. It sounds like your husband is experiencing the misfortune of a midlife crisis in which nobody wins.... Sign in to see full entry.