<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rdf:RDF xmlns="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#"><channel rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/BlogRss.aspx/ugachaca1234701"><title>Cancer Chronicles - Blogit</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/</link><description>I have handled cancer close to home, but never through someone elses eyes.</description><sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod><sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency><sy:updateBase>2000-01-01T12:00+00:00</sy:updateBase><items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/140301" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/138679" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/133735" /></rdf:Seq></items></channel><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/140301"><title>And now he won't talk to me</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/140301</link><description>MR.X was calling me every day for a while. Now I have to call him every few days to make sure he's alive. And when I do call and ask how he's doing I get answers that dodge anything close to emotion. He's shutting down. It's like he's gone into his own little wotld in his head. He doesn't want to...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/138679"><title>MR.X</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/138679</link><description>This is a letter written by MR.X. This is how I know he feels, and this is what I am trying to support him on. What do you say to this? How can I possibly have any effect on feelings this profound. How can I be there for him? MR.X has been my best friend for 11 years, and we have been through all...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/133735"><title>A different view.</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/ugachaca1234701/133735</link><description>Cancer. Cancer sucks. For everyone and anyone. I had three great grandparents and an uncle all die of cancer. Well not exactly from the cancer, but from the chemo and the radiation and the weight loss and the pain. And I thought that was bad until my best friends partner was re-diagnosed with...</description></item></rdf:RDF>