<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rdf:RDF xmlns="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#"><channel rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/BlogRss.aspx/sly785930"><title>Sly's side (relationships) - Blogit</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/</link><description>Well this is the third of three blogs I will write in hopes to spur thought, debate, happiness and peace of mind. My passions are life, business and people which will anchor my writings. Someone said "either write something worth reading or do something worth writing about." I wonder why the hell not go for both? Thats Sly's side...I ask you take a read and share yours! Thanks! 

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Yet on the other hand we also...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/557303"><title>Meaningful one night stand...</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/557303</link><description>Where are the caring, beautiful intelligent (oh yea single) women at these days? My last 3 dates have been comfortable, tolerable and completely unfulfilling- Maybe I should just be looking for a meaningful one night stand instead?? Kidding but it is a thought!</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/555904"><title>leason learned p3</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/555904</link><description>" Never say Never" - This one is his version of The Law of Attraction I suppose. Just didn’t need books and movies to explain it, just three simple words. Any time the word “never” came out of my mouth that would be his response. It’s simple but I believe essential to having a progressive,...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/555572"><title>Lesson learned pt2</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/555572</link><description>Probably 1,000 different versions out there but here are Jack Wrights versions: pardon the language, although he probably wouldnt:) "Shit Happens"...More than I care to count in my life I have had times of extreme frustrations, let downs and the worst of bad breaks. Some on a scale that I only...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/555349"><title>lesson learned-pt1</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/555349</link><description>I have not written in a while, mostly because I like to think that I respect and value your time to not put "fill" on here and just really been at a lost for words or inspiration but some reason tonight this came to me. Last Dec my grandfather lost his battle with lung cancer. After a long hard...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/537935"><title>Sticks and stones...</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/537935</link><description>will break your bones but words will never hurt me?? Is that how that goes??? Well how many reading this agree with that load of crap? lol.. Funny thing is seems like the more you care for a person the more ridiculous the accusation will be and the more it hurts when it shouldn't!... I am...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/537256"><title>Part 2...</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/537256</link><description>Due to the response (including emails) of the last post wanted to expand both on thought and clarity. BTW thanks for those sharing your thoughts, keep them coming and me honest! Its idealistic in a sense (my posts and comments) however its what I believe...Happiness is in your heart and if you...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/535713"><title>Shut up and hold her tight</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/535713</link><description>So I am writing this with a smile, must say its been tough the past 2 months I have been consulting for a company in Nashville whose manager is none other than an ex I care deeply for...Its been up and down and like many of you I just sometimes get tired of feeling that anger, frustration and...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/534915"><title>Finding the good...</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/534915</link><description>A friend going through a tough break up got me thinking about this... She was surrounded by those condolences we all have heard but dont always seem to help very much at the time...You know the "everything happens for a reason" crowd! I usually laugh or at least chuckle a bit at that point...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/534513"><title>Look around...</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/sly785930/534513</link><description>Got this idea from a conversation I recently had with a girl I used to date. She was going through a tough time and doing some "soul searching". We were talking about friendships and how over time friendships fade from many at a shallow level to fewer but at a much stronger and deeper level and...</description></item></rdf:RDF>