<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rdf:RDF xmlns="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#"><channel rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/BlogRss.aspx/cml"><title>It's soooooo over... - Blogit</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/</link><description>My life as I begin the transition from divorce to singlehood.</description><sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod><sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency><sy:updateBase>2000-01-01T12:00+00:00</sy:updateBase><items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/518159" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/513829" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/513392" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/513340" /></rdf:Seq></items></channel><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/518159"><title>Still no job</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/518159</link><description>Ok, he lost his job on December 17th...it is now January 27th and nothing. I just spent 4 hours on Monster.com looking for jobs for him. This is crazy! We just got a note that our house is going to be in foreclosure, which REALLY stinks because we are getting it ready to sell. I would like to see...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/513829"><title>#2</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/513829</link><description>We had a discussion last night about how we may lose our house. At no time is he saying anything about finding a job. I started crying and asked pleadingly: "Please tell me why you're not making it your mission to find work? Please tell me, I don't understand!" He looked at me and said he didn't...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/513392"><title>The why's - #1</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/513392</link><description>He left his job a year ago, and promised to look for one right away. He went for 4 months without looking and yelled at me whenever I asked about it. He finally got something, but left it 3 days later. Found something else, left that, too. Was let go from the latest one for poor job performance....</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/513340"><title>I'm done...</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/cml/513340</link><description>I've been married for 12 years and it's over. It's been over for me for awhile, but now I am really ready to move on. He's not ready to let go, but unfortunately it's because he (admittedly) doesn't want to be alone. Not a good reason to stay! I am using this blog to get my thoughts and feelings...</description></item></rdf:RDF>