https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/TAD/After 5 years of endless dating and seemingly endless dates... and a few bumps in the relationship road... I have everything to show for it... hourly12000-01-01T12:00+00:00https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/TAD/576196No, they are not. Actually the behavior of a man is more akin to that of a cat. They want you when they want you.... and expect you to drop everything when they do. Take Johnny for example. He told me weeks ago that he was trying to arrange a trip to Atlanta for business and would like to see me...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/TAD/575759thinks he has a shot with me - I suppose now that plumbers are? No, George, you do not. I had to tell him this... because he was one of the angry Republicans who wrote to me expressing he would NEVER give Barack Obama one cent... and then in short - I don't think so. I wrote back to him with -...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/TAD/575203I am just kidding... but I can almost understand why some women cut their hair off as they approach 40, gain weight and start hanging with their "special friend"... Not me... I still love men... at least the ones who have sense enough to not piss me off... like this guy. Got to love these emails....https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/TAD/574908During the course of my renewed communication with KC - which blossomed and imploded within a week... I was dealing with my mother's worsening Alzheimer's and was planning to travel to and from my sister's home - a four hour drive - making the trip to and from in one day. On the Thursday before...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/TAD/573964Of course KC's reply was defensive... he could be the poster child for WBMS - Wounded Black Man Syndrome - but I learned during the course of our time together and apart (more time apart than together) to read between the lines. Also... this time I was not looking for anything more than assurance...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/TAD/573807In this case it was the one I had to let go... for my own peace and happiness. Anyone who read my blogs last year before I took my break will remember 'the one'.. he was the only man who could make my heart stop simply by seeing him... or the way it is today, thinking I see him in a crowd. We...