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Brutal truths evolved from conversations with 100 men and 100 women who were kind enough to answer my questions as long as I promised them anonymity. The findings were startling: Most women became enraged over the idea that love, sex, romance and marriage could thrive independently i.e. actually have no connection to each other, while the majority of men supported the concept admitting to living in “sexless, unhappy” marriages. Most women adamantly denied such conditions however confessed they would rather shop than have sex. 

It is incredible to discover how many people can pick a story they want to believe in and run with it for years and decades while secretly leading lives of quiet desperation.</description><sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod><sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency><sy:updateBase>2000-01-01T12:00+00:00</sy:updateBase><items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Miami_NewYork/521762" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Miami_NewYork/520358" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Miami_NewYork/519857" /></rdf:Seq></items></channel><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Miami_NewYork/521762"><title>Brutal Truth #3 Best Friends - Worse Sex</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Miami_NewYork/521762</link><description>A friend is a close acquaintance who has some quality which makes sleeping with him or her totally unappealing Aren't there really only two choices? Romance or marriage? Since romance and marriage are not compatible, they cancel out each other and most people end up with nothing. Due to this...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Miami_NewYork/520358"><title>Brutal Truth #2 Forever is Environmentally Incorrect</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Miami_NewYork/520358</link><description>What if the Hokey Pokey really IS what it's all about? If there's any similarity between us then we've all attended more than our share of weddings where the band's repertoire has included that awful "Hokey Pokey" number. There was a time when I thought that it was a subtle way to get perfect...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Miami_NewYork/519857"><title>Brutal Truth #1    Marriage is for having children - once !</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Miami_NewYork/519857</link><description>The problem with remarriage is that they're in worse trouble the next time around. Only the Brady Bunch has been successful in blending families - and that was the seventies! Too much has happened to the world since then rendering any similar attempts, especially off camera, extremely difficult...</description></item></rdf:RDF>