<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rdf:RDF xmlns="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#"><channel rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/BlogRss.aspx/Darson"><title>Thoughts - Blogit</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darson/</link><description>In our family, 'goodbye' is code for 'let's start a whole new conversation until our spouses drag us out by the elbows.' 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Things we no longer need. Things that just get in the way. Like lotion samples and perfume that smells like Great Aunt Bessie. Like toothpaste tubes that we've never liked the flavor of. Toss 'em. You don't need 'em. Oh, sure, there could be some great...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darson/658583"><title>Thank God for the Journal</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darson/658583</link><description>Today is officially an Executive Day Off...due to some trauma on the homefront. Nothing that involves immediate family; we're fine....just some wounds from the past that are trying to fester. In my world, if you're going to be family, one needs to behave like family. 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