https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/Here is darshana gaurav jain on my life in the big city of Bombay , through the struggling years when i was a loser and a complete loser. How life changes and how the universe plays a role in manifesting your dreamshourly12000-01-01T12:00+00:00https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/571232TO my beloved husband, my sweetheart ---- who is all my strength and happiness. ONCE I MET GOD; AND PRAYED ALL DAY LONG… AND ASKD HIM TO GIVE ME; THE GIFT OF “LOVE” ( BUT JUST LOVE WAS NOT ENOUGH, I THOUGHT THEN;;;;;) SO, I PRAYED AGAIN AND ASKED FOR THE GIFT OF “HAPPINESS” WAS THAT ALL?? NO -- I PRAYED ONCE MORE. THIS TIME FOR THE GIFT OF “COMFORT” THEN------------ FOR AFFECTION, FOR SUPPORT, FOR INSPIRATION FOR STRENGTH FOR INTELLEGENCE ( I DON’T KNOW WHEN MY PRAYERS ENDED ) GOD OPENED HIS...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/571050"HAPPINESS ALWAYS LOOKS SMALL WHEN WE HOLD IT IN OUR HANDS. BUT WHEN WE LEARN TO SHARE IT, WE REALIZE HOW BIG AND PRECIOUS IT IS!" ARGUMENTS MIGHT HELP U WIN SITUATIONS BUT NOT HEARTS..... SO NXT TIME U INDULGE IN THEM; BEFORE GOING ANY FURTHER...... JUST ASK URSELF -"WATS MORE IMPORTANT THE SITUATION OR THE PERSON......???" "NEVER EXPLAIN URSELF!! IT'S A WASTE......... COZ FRNDS DONT NEED IT N ENEMIES WONT BELIEVE IT....!!!" "NEVER WORRY ABOUT THE PEOPLE IN UR PAST COZ THERE'S ALWAYS A...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/570862"DON'T LET SOMEONE BECOME A PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE... WHEN YOU ARE JUST AN OPTION FOR THEM....." "NEVER CRY FOR ANY RELATION IN LIFE BECAUSE FOR THE ONE WHOM YOU CRY DOES NOT DESERVE YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO DESERVES WILL NEVER LET YOU CRY................. " "TREAT EVERYONE WITH POLITENESS EVEN THOSE WHO ARE RUDE TO YOU, NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT NICE BUT BECAUSE YOU ARE NICE......................." "NEVER SEARCH YOUR HAPPINESS IN OTHERS WHICH WILL MAKE YOU FEEL ALONE, RATHER SEARCH IT IN...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/570566But this “required space” was soon replaced by “more space” which spoiled its charm, and instead of solving problems, started creating them. The word “space” is misinterpreted in many cases. Space was required in a relationship to give freedom necessary to live life to the fullest. It never meant never being committed in a relationship. It never meant disowning your responsibilities. It never meant making incorrect and unethical moves under the false pretext of space. For any relationship to...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/570565How’s that possible? More spacious house gives us more pleasure, more spacious garden gives us more enjoyment, more spacious cars are manufactured for giving more luxury, even a more spacious toilet gives us more comfort. So how can this so called, always wanted, SPACE create more problems? True friends, very true. But beware friends, this word “space” is very delicate and even strong enough to solve and also create problems. If used in right place … it solves our problems, but if used...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/570337Many say or if we remember even in our holy book"GEETA" Lord Krishna has said Just do your duties without any expectations of the fruit. In many cases or rather in 8 out of 10 cases this thought helps us to circumvent even the deadliest situations which might have otherwise cast over us a doom of depression. So-- Right. Agreed. But in the remaining 2 cases, I Feel, it may not always hold right. Sometimes, though at the time of doing the deed, we may not expect anything. Like when our parents...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/569997Universe and God are the same, they say so. Yes, I fully agree. We are always taught by our parents, by our teachers, by our elders not to harm anyone. Every religion, every community, every god preaches good things, Religions are many, casts, creed, sections of societies are many, but the single power which rules over everybody, “THE UNIVERSE” is only one. So, we all are guided by a single law, a single force which they say is” Law of Attraction”. Or lets put it up philosophically which our...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/565289Hi Friends When your life is in atotal mess, you hate to have positive feelings towards life. Life is a bitter truth Which everyone has to face, Admist the critics all around; each one of different race. LIFE originally was just a truth; People made it bitter; But if each try to encourage the other, Like gold it will glitter. GOD created life Perfectly safe and sound. But can in this life today, Safety be ever found.? HIS idea of life though Laid in accumulating pleasures. People today are...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/565274Hi Friends Back with you after a long break. Lets me proceed in my story. I had done my graduation and C.A. inter by this time. But unfortunately both these degrees were fetching me no where. C.A was a difficult nut to crack. I don’t know what made me take a wrong decision of venturing in this field. From the very inception of the course, I wasn’t much inclined towards it. Rather, my admission into Commerce itself can be a very good example of “Square Pegs in Round Holes” since I was always...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/562561Hi all, It was dark winter morning which was resposible for separating me from my Granny. 5th January, 1996 5.30am to be more precise. A poetry in remembrance of my Dearest Granny. May God Bless The Soul....... Happiness condensed in your arms, Nobility hesitated to depart us; When peace, joy & Tranquility still existed, Why only you hastened to desert us? I remember the warmth I used to feel From the chillness of your arms, And your generousity towards a beggar when he pleaded for the alms....https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/562409Hi Friends!! M here again. To share tit bits of my life with you. Life had no longer remained that calm and sweet as before. Chaos had increased. Or was it that i was feeling that. Expectations from me were increased, from everyone - parents, teachers, neighbours, friends and all. In studies, in performance, in behaviour. Playing with dolls and flying out freely like butterfly were replaced by digging into books, Books and more BOOKS. I was at terrace, just wondering how i got lost in this...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/562204Hi Dear Ones, By this time I had got a hang of one thing – that if I cried or rather yelled to the top of my voice especially in a market place, I can get whatever I want. Is that the reason why it’s said “A child is the father of man!” So apart from toffees and ice creams, I continued my crying for dolls, jellies in a restaurant, tri cycle of the boy next door, half jeans worn by my friend in the nursery class and every thing. And wait – Not all my demands were reasonable, I mean, were...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/562202Hi Friends. Time skipped away and I was 3 years old now. Ready for going to nursery school. In our days we didn’t had play groups. In fact a child like me would have never required a play group. Given a chance I could have managed to turn my home, my class room and yes – why spare neighbors – so even their houses in to a playgroup. I used to play all day long at my granny’s house which was at a stone’s throw distance from ours and return home at night all tired and some how managed to...https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Darshanas_life/562072HI friends Here is a simple girl with huge dreams from one of the small-sized suburbs in Bombay wishing to share all her life's ups and downs with you all dear friends. 21st August, 1980. 10.33 am. I came to this planet Earth. Well I wont say I was born with a silver spoon, but definitely my parents left no single chance to make me feel that. I was the superbaby, then a superchild and then a supergirl for them. Always. My presence was made special in every manner. Not only by my parents, but...