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She probably needed to rest for a while and strike up a conversation...socialize a bit.
posted by
Annicita
on May 15, 2022 at 11:30 AM
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Re: CCT
She is not homeless - shares a home with her brother several blocks from my house. I have seen her impaired at times - under the influence of either drink or substances, and thought this was the case the other night. I believe she's probably vaccinated. She does continue to wear a mask.
posted by
Pat_B
on May 14, 2022 at 4:05 PM
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It is a problem, I wonder if she is homeless, although I don't think she would have
survived the winter outside. Also one wonders if she has ever been vaccinated.
You don't need this worry. 
posted by
C_C_T
on May 14, 2022 at 11:38 AM
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Pat B
I know the nervousness you are having. Don't think the girl would be any danger to you, but do keep a close watch. And try discourage her of taking undue advantage.
posted by
anib
on May 14, 2022 at 5:27 AM
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Re: Kabu
Thanks for the suggestion. I did talk to my daughter about it. My kids know this woman as a troubled soul but not a threat. I don't intend to look out my door after the street lights come on tonight. 
posted by
Pat_B
on May 13, 2022 at 6:23 PM
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Talk to your daughter about this or call the police if it happens aain. it isn't fair at your age to be expected to take care ofsomething that could be huge. Could she be beginning Gementia of some form? Whatever, you aren't a youngster yourself ddear friend.
posted by
Kabu
on May 13, 2022 at 6:14 PM
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Yeah, there's something not quite right. With your being on high alert, you will eventually get to the bottom of it.
posted by
Sherri_G
on May 13, 2022 at 11:21 AM
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Good Afternoon
Pat, this would make me very uncomfortable. I'm always one to help but I'm not sure how. If she just needs to stop and rest for a moment that's one thing but sleeping on your porch is something totally different. I think she may need some kind of help but I'm not sure what kind. I'm not even sure who you could ask about something like this.
posted by
Goldiec
on May 13, 2022 at 9:30 AM
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Re: Good morning
Sassyass, your suggestions are right on! That's exactly the line of questioning I used, but she's able sidestep direct questions. It may well be there's some drug use involved, and it wouldn't be safe for her to share details. My antenna is up.
posted by
Pat_B
on May 13, 2022 at 7:50 AM
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Good morning
That would not set right with me either. It's truly sad. She may have nowhere to go and since you struck up a friendship with her via friendly chit chats, she may be hoping that you will take her in or offer to do something about her present situation. Maybe questioning her next time about her residence and family, you may be able to find out if she is really in trouble or if she just simply enjoys your company. Good luck.
posted by
Sherri_G
on May 13, 2022 at 7:04 AM
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