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How difficult it all is for you. Very sad.
posted by
Sea_Gypsy
on March 9, 2021 at 3:35 PM
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You must get a court order to keep him away. You are in all sorts of danger.
posted by
Kabu
on March 9, 2021 at 2:22 PM
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I went through this. He won't change. Your best bet is to move out of state.
posted by
Annicita
on March 9, 2021 at 1:11 PM
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Good Morning
First I will start by wishing you the very best. I'm so sorry that you and the children have to go through this. I think you should insist that your ex keeps his distance from your new home. I believe you need a safe place for him to see the children. You have no protection once he enters your home. I believe he's unstable and that makes for a very dangerous situation. It sounds to me like he's having trouble cutting the ties to you. This is not uncommon for an ex. I think the cameras might be a good idea but they won't stop him from coming in.
posted by
Goldiec
on March 9, 2021 at 7:09 AM
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He has no business roaming around at free will. That is such an invasion of your privacy. The front door threshold should be his stopping point. Once past that, not only is he looking for his stuff, but he is also searching for signs that there may be a new love interest. Not a good thing for you, the kids, or for him. Angry exes are the worst.
posted by
Sherri_G
on March 9, 2021 at 6:37 AM
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