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Re: Re: Kabu

   yes thank you.

posted by Kabu on November 13, 2017 at 2:53 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Kabu

you're welcome!  Hope it worked out.  :)

posted by -blackcat on November 11, 2017 at 9:54 AM | link to this | reply

Re: RPresta

it's both boring and frustrating... I need back and forth... to grow and learn from each other... I love when people show me another side or make me think a different way. 

posted by -blackcat on November 11, 2017 at 9:53 AM | link to this | reply

Re: PatB

hmmm... perhaps I wasn't clear in my blog.  I always see both sides so it's not that I can't agree to disagree... it's that I want to be able to be heard without it sounding like criticism.  And at times, I've repressed my thoughts because I don't want to upset anyone... I think maybe I've known far too many people who get defensive very quickly... but I have to stop believing that everyone will react that way.

posted by -blackcat on November 11, 2017 at 9:52 AM | link to this | reply

Re: FormerStudentIntern

For me it's not really a script... I just try to imagine how they'll respond so that I won't offend or come across wrong... it's really too much overanalyzing.   I plan to stop.

posted by -blackcat on November 11, 2017 at 9:47 AM | link to this | reply

you just answered a question that I am grappling with today. Thank you dear.

posted by Kabu on November 10, 2017 at 1:34 PM | link to this | reply

BC

Gosh, you need to be able to spit out your feelings with that certain someone, as well as he should. He should respect you enough to give you that dimention in a relationship. If one disagrees, one should learn to negotiate, compromise, or agree to disagree. But you know all this. I'd rather be with someone with whom I could disagree openly than covertly agree. Not that that's what you or he did. But it would be boring being around someone with no opinions. Well, that's just me... 

posted by RPresta on November 10, 2017 at 12:21 PM | link to this | reply

It took me a lot of years to learn I could agree to disagree.

posted by Pat_B on November 10, 2017 at 10:25 AM | link to this | reply

I tend to want to avoid conflict as well. I do a lot of tip-toeing out of fear of offending someone. It seems like people are more sensitive these days.

Like you, I go in with a script in my mind. In my case, I get thrown off when we go off script. That often tended to happen with oral presentations back in school, although I never failed one.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on November 10, 2017 at 8:47 AM | link to this | reply

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