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I can only repeat the comments from the others.

posted by adnohr on October 13, 2017 at 11:31 PM | link to this | reply

He is a grown man who can make his own decisions (right or wrong). You have no need to feel embarrassed. It was his decision. Who really knows what is the whole story? 

Just be there for the family in case they need you.

posted by Annicita on October 13, 2017 at 6:58 PM | link to this | reply

I have left but certainly not without fair warning and certainly not without my kids. but I guess they are grown now; but still need to hear from him. Don't feel embarrassment though. Not your doing. 

posted by Kabu on October 13, 2017 at 12:20 PM | link to this | reply

It is a sad situation,happening too often.

posted by C_C_T on October 13, 2017 at 9:25 AM | link to this | reply

Here is to hoping that your brother contacts you all.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on October 13, 2017 at 9:14 AM | link to this | reply

It is a difficult time for your entire family and the previous comments are all true. There was also a case of a woman in my family leaving; sad.

posted by RPresta on October 12, 2017 at 8:04 PM | link to this | reply

that's too bad but hopefully everyone will find happiness.  It's hard to really know his feelings unless you are close and he will share his pain.  Try to remember that things aren't always black and white and he's human with his own set of issues.  What people need most is compassion, not judgment... 

posted by -blackcat on October 12, 2017 at 7:53 PM | link to this | reply

Shelly

Yes, it is sad for everyone concerned. And TAPS is right - women do it too. There was a case in my family...

posted by Nautikos on October 12, 2017 at 7:26 PM | link to this | reply

Such a common thing among family men.  It is sad that it is true.  It hits everyone so hard.   So often the fellow does not even end up happy after hurting everyone else.  Of course it is not just men.  Women do it too.  Sorry it is hitting you so hard.  Don't shoulder the hurts and problems of everyone else.  No one is strong enough for that.

posted by TAPS. on October 12, 2017 at 6:50 PM | link to this | reply

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