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Re: Re: shellyb

ha ha 

I know.  I had that coming.  

posted by shelly_b on September 28, 2017 at 4:58 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: Kabu

my cat has anxiety... cries in the car just to take a 2 min ride to the vet and then hides for days.  he does not enjoy.  lol

he also misses me when I'm gone so it's a lose lose... but think overall better to find a sitter.  

posted by -blackcat on September 28, 2017 at 11:04 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Kabu

you could drive and take puss with you. Just work out where to go where puss is accepted. I know though, Mr. Graysome holds me in place too....as you say short bursts to start with.

posted by Kabu on September 28, 2017 at 10:50 AM | link to this | reply

Re: BC-A

You've been consistently dating for 50 years?  Is that what you're saying?   You must be a pro!!  

posted by -blackcat on September 28, 2017 at 5:58 AM | link to this | reply

Re: RPresta

Thanks RP!   I do feel the weight and I think it would help to unload at least that one big thing.  :)

posted by -blackcat on September 28, 2017 at 5:58 AM | link to this | reply

Re: C_C_T

Another profound comment.  Keep the easiest problem to handle.  I will try to remember that!  

posted by -blackcat on September 28, 2017 at 5:56 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Naut

Oh dear Naut, I think you are a sweet soul, and I enjoy when you let it show.  

posted by -blackcat on September 28, 2017 at 5:56 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Kabu

You know... I think more and more about taking off for a bit... I think if I didn't have my anxiety prone cat to worry about, it would be easier.  But I'll find the space to do it, even if it's in short bursts.   Thanks always for your wisdom also!  

posted by -blackcat on September 28, 2017 at 5:55 AM | link to this | reply

Re: TAPS

Thanks Taps... your comment is so wise... I especially like the idea that we don't always win what we thought we wanted.  That's very wise... and I appreciate you taking the time to share your wisdom!!!  

posted by -blackcat on September 28, 2017 at 5:53 AM | link to this | reply

Re: shellyb

when you grow legs long enough, I'll let you kick me.  haha  

posted by -blackcat on September 28, 2017 at 5:51 AM | link to this | reply

Tell me about it love. it's my 50th anniversary in dating since age 14.

posted by BC-A on September 27, 2017 at 4:24 PM | link to this | reply

Your life is evolving, and it seems you don't need any such thing as a good kick in the pants because you are focused and moving forward. The house sale is a huge weight. I know what that's like. It will be good when it is sold, like a weight off of you. You are doing well and will continue. 

posted by RPresta on September 27, 2017 at 11:52 AM | link to this | reply

Well you are pretty normal I think , it just sounds worse when it is written in black cat lingo. Of course you are a little unhappy selling the house and want to dispense that feeling. Sadly as you have probably found we get rid of one little pain and then another takes its place. I don't think many are 100 percent free of problems, I always keep one I can handle to keep the others away.

posted by C_C_T on September 27, 2017 at 10:51 AM | link to this | reply

BC

I would never dream of kicking a cat any more than I would poke it...

posted by Nautikos on September 27, 2017 at 9:33 AM | link to this | reply

I;ll leave th arse kicking to our shelly and thank you for the hugs. Those black cat eyes really shone straight into my old eyes. 

This was when I took off on my round the World trip. I was totally at a loose end and a bother to myself and everyone around me. I found myself while having to grow up and make all my own decisions and keep safe. parts of what I came to terms with about me I didn't much like but forgiving oneself helped eventually. 

Here for you whenever you need.

posted by Kabu on September 27, 2017 at 9:03 AM | link to this | reply

It is good that you are not a quitter.  Keep on keeping on and you will win, even if you win something different than what you were working toward.  Life is not easy, but it is definitely worth the effort it takes.

posted by TAPS. on September 27, 2017 at 8:20 AM | link to this | reply

I would gladly kick you in the ass when you need it!  Just let me know!   hahaha   

posted by shelly_b on September 27, 2017 at 8:00 AM | link to this | reply

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