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Re: Re: FormerStudentIntern

You are absolutely right there blackcat... families...!

posted by mneme on September 24, 2017 at 10:39 AM | link to this | reply

BC

There are family situations for which there simply are no good solutions, with emphasis on 'good.' This strikes me as one of those...

posted by Nautikos on September 24, 2017 at 6:40 AM | link to this | reply

Re: FormerStudentIntern

I agree with you in theory.  Would rather clear the air... but with an irrational person, it's never cleared.

posted by -blackcat on September 23, 2017 at 10:30 AM | link to this | reply

Re: RPresta

I realize it's confusing so I addressed this in my next post.  :)

posted by -blackcat on September 23, 2017 at 10:30 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Annicita

hahhahaha.. isn't that the truth??  

posted by -blackcat on September 23, 2017 at 10:29 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Kabu

it actually is sad.  and I do both forgive and feel sorry for her.  I wish sometimes I could hold a grudge, but I never can.  

posted by -blackcat on September 23, 2017 at 10:29 AM | link to this | reply

I know of a few people who do not want to address their bad behavior from before. All that does is just bottle things up between parties.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on September 23, 2017 at 9:17 AM | link to this | reply

BC

I didn't realize this was a different aunt. You can't engage in a rational conversation with an irrational person, so I think you were wise to let it slide. 

posted by RPresta on September 22, 2017 at 8:44 PM | link to this | reply

she's a brat a real spoiled old woman girl. You did the right thing to ignore her tantrums. |Who needs another one she ain't going to change. It is sad really.

posted by Kabu on September 22, 2017 at 5:49 PM | link to this | reply

you can't pick your family....sigh if you could boy oh boy would there be some major changes in mind

posted by Annicita on September 22, 2017 at 4:58 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: Re: shellyb

gee...you can't win can you?  lol  I think your stories are interesting.  Even if you think the good relatives are boring you could make it interesting!    You are good with that.  Thanks for sharing your life with us.  

posted by shelly_b on September 22, 2017 at 1:50 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: shellyb

that's a very valid point.  though I don't talk much about the good relatives.  those would make boring stories.  LOL  These two aunts are mirrors of each other.   The crazy one lives in wisconsin.  This one lives a mile away.   

posted by -blackcat on September 22, 2017 at 1:31 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: shellyb

You sure do have some interesting family members lol

posted by shelly_b on September 22, 2017 at 1:21 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: TAPS

We are pretty much allowed to say anything.  I squelched it because it is water under the bridge, forgiven, and I personally would rather remember the good times.

posted by TAPS. on September 22, 2017 at 1:21 PM | link to this | reply

Re: shellyb

different aunt.

posted by -blackcat on September 22, 2017 at 1:19 PM | link to this | reply

Is this the crazy aunt?  Why are you still talking to her?  lol

posted by shelly_b on September 22, 2017 at 12:23 PM | link to this | reply

Re: C_C_T

you've summed it up well.  

posted by -blackcat on September 22, 2017 at 12:20 PM | link to this | reply

Re: strat

severing cords seem impossible... but it's good advice.  The cords have to be frayed and perhaps they can't always connect.  I've been told to keep my boundaries.  It's not always easy.

posted by -blackcat on September 22, 2017 at 12:20 PM | link to this | reply

Re: TAPS

why did you squelch it?  I'd like to hear what you have to say.  

The second part of your comment is ironic for me, because I was considering writing a post about when someone is gone.. are we allowed to say bad/honest things.  Or only good.  I may still write it at some point...

posted by -blackcat on September 22, 2017 at 12:16 PM | link to this | reply

This post made me want to say so much but I managed to squelch it.  Let us just say that she (my family example of the same), now the she is gone, people only remember nice things about her.  That is good and as it should be.

posted by TAPS. on September 22, 2017 at 12:11 PM | link to this | reply

What I think is cut the cord.

All cords. Phone cords. Need cords. Everything.

What I know, however, is nothing....

posted by strat on September 22, 2017 at 10:59 AM | link to this | reply

She needs her victims.

posted by C_C_T on September 22, 2017 at 10:35 AM | link to this | reply

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