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Re: Naut

Now I'd like to hear your stories of intrigue or theories around love... it seems the personal topics are always the ones that you deem as too complicated for you, yet they are the most simple.  Aren't they?   

posted by -blackcat on September 1, 2017 at 4:12 PM | link to this | reply

Re: FormerStudentIntern

that's actually quite a profound statement.  We did the best we could at the time.  Very true.

posted by -blackcat on September 1, 2017 at 4:10 PM | link to this | reply

Re: C_C_T

ummmm... I'm not sure I'll ever love someone enough to use their toothbrush.   We need a different test.  LOL

posted by -blackcat on September 1, 2017 at 4:09 PM | link to this | reply

Re: TAPS

thank you for the encouragement.  :)

posted by -blackcat on September 1, 2017 at 4:08 PM | link to this | reply

Re: RPresta

I don't think either of us have ever had bad intentions... but that doesn't mean we haven't hurt each other.  Yes, there is a lot of baggage here, but it might start getting unpacked this weekend.

posted by -blackcat on September 1, 2017 at 4:08 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Kabu

That's a good point.  You're right.  They don't like feeling vulnerable.  And they rarely show it.  He acts the tough strong guy, so it surprised me to find that I wasn't the only one feeling vulnerable. 

posted by -blackcat on September 1, 2017 at 4:07 PM | link to this | reply

Re: BC-A

prefabricated families?  To be honest, I haven't considered his kids in the equation.

posted by -blackcat on September 1, 2017 at 4:04 PM | link to this | reply

BC

Fascinating, but far too complicated for my simple mind...

posted by Nautikos on August 31, 2017 at 11:56 AM | link to this | reply

I feel that we all have that someone who we hurt. For the most part, we did the best that we could at the time.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on August 31, 2017 at 9:40 AM | link to this | reply

As my old Aunt said if you would use someone elses toothbrush.

posted by C_C_T on August 31, 2017 at 9:25 AM | link to this | reply

Well written.  It made me ask myself questions about me and someone I hurt, so long ago.

posted by TAPS. on August 31, 2017 at 12:09 AM | link to this | reply

I like the other two comments. If you both feel through a discussion that you are not going to intentionally hurt each other from this point forward, I think that's the most simple and healthy way to approach it. But that's me. You two should be fine; I sure hope so. 

posted by RPresta on August 30, 2017 at 1:06 PM | link to this | reply

BC Love

I enjoy being a girl...when I don't. There is no easier way for any of us to get sniffy if we don't think himself is acting just as he should, just the perfect amount of attention. He's crazy over you probably always has held a torch for you. But he was hurt and is just letting you know that if you do want him please be serious cos he's feeling vulnerable. 

men don't like feeling vulnerable, actually I think it is good for them occasionally. How easy do you think Wiley's life is sometimes

posted by Kabu on August 30, 2017 at 11:02 AM | link to this | reply

Blackcat

Women such as yourself find both a bright and dark side to these guys with prefabricated families. In all relationships hun, love overtakes mind. For myself in past relationships(not such as yours), let this crazy thing called love take its course. I wish you the best.

posted by BC-A on August 30, 2017 at 9:54 AM | link to this | reply

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