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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: RP

hahaha... You have good logical questions.  The same ones that I have!!   

posted by -blackcat on August 13, 2017 at 7:34 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: Re: RP

I see. Okay, I can see one could overthing this. I'll wait for the next installment! LOL! 

posted by RPresta on August 13, 2017 at 7:31 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: shellyb

hahahahha... yea, I'm used to it.  But what HE did was crazy.  Taxi's don't stop for people running through the street.  He's nuts.  

posted by -blackcat on August 13, 2017 at 7:19 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: RP

Trust is a general problem for me.  My comfort level with him is higher than with most people... but not 100%.

We had been sharing loooong stories, so at one point I asked him if there was anything left that I didn't know about him... and that was part of his response.  He said he didn't want to lie... but he also wasn't going to tell me because he hasn't told anyone (or maybe he told one person).  He kept knocking himself down... as though he doesn't want me to think he's a great person.   I feel we're all flawed in some way, so I'm not sure why he's being so hard on himself.  I feel like he may tell me at some point but who knows.  

posted by -blackcat on August 13, 2017 at 7:17 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: Re: shellyb

hahahaha, going over the washington bridge was scary enough.  lol   Of course, I would do it again in a heartbeat since I would know where the heck I was going!  I'd buy you a train ticket to meet me?  lol   

Just stunned that anyone would drive in that traffic.  I guess.  

But, if you're use to it then go ahead and ya'll kill yourselves!  lol

posted by shelly_b on August 13, 2017 at 7:13 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: BC

Perhaps it's trust that concerns you? Why would he tell you he didn't tell you everything and then proceed to not tell you? He may be working up his courage to divulge more. Or not. It's different for every two people. What's your comfort level with him? If it's high, then that's good, imho.

posted by RPresta on August 13, 2017 at 7:11 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: shellyb

and btw... I don't believe you wouldn't do it for me.  hahaha 

posted by -blackcat on August 13, 2017 at 7:00 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: shellyb

LOL... we both drove to meet up.  He parked and ran through the traffic to get to me... jaywalking is not only illegal, he could have gotten killed.  But you're stunned because I was driving?  Is that what you mean?  hahaha

posted by -blackcat on August 13, 2017 at 6:59 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: shellyb

Because anyone that drives in NYC is crazy!  lol   I've seen that traffic with my own eyes.  You wouldn't get me in that traffic for nobody!  Sorry but not even you!    hahahaha

posted by shelly_b on August 13, 2017 at 6:54 PM | link to this | reply

Re: RPresta

Chemistry has never been our problem.  I'm not sure it's a good complement as a self-sacrificing person (in recovery) to be matched with a self-serving person... lol   But like I said in my post, I think he's too hard on himself.  He's never acted selfish towards me.... yet.   

posted by -blackcat on August 13, 2017 at 6:44 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Kabu

I guess it remains to be seen if the secrets will be told.  It's still very early.  

posted by -blackcat on August 13, 2017 at 6:42 PM | link to this | reply

Re: shellyb

yes... he's an adventurer... and risk taker... triathlete... definitely not boring.  But why the stunned face?  LOL  

posted by -blackcat on August 13, 2017 at 6:41 PM | link to this | reply

Re: FormerStudentIntern

he had a tough childhood but is a very good person.  Complex is a good word!  

I'm not sure what you mean about mixed feelings?  You mean the fear of watching him run through traffic ... but also knowing it was for me?  I guess I like the hero in him...  

posted by -blackcat on August 13, 2017 at 6:40 PM | link to this | reply

BC

You might complement each other. That can work. It all depends on the chemistry, perhaps. 

posted by RPresta on August 13, 2017 at 5:10 PM | link to this | reply

Wiley is the only person in the World that I can think of in my life that I never keep secrets from. We know all about each other and for us it works. ten years later and that spark that started for us is now a raging log fire.

posted by Kabu on August 13, 2017 at 10:17 AM | link to this | reply

Well...if you two hook up at least you know you have adventure in your life.  

posted by shelly_b on August 13, 2017 at 10:04 AM | link to this | reply

A very interesting read. Jimmy sounds like a very interesting person who is complex. I know what you mean about him having mixed feelings when it came to the driving.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on August 13, 2017 at 10:01 AM | link to this | reply

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