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I too was successful in getting an attacker banned from Blogit, many years ago. Consider it a victory.....  you and I are still here, and our abusive attackers are gone.  You could look at it this way..... we had to suffer through the abuse to discover, expose, and successfully defeat a predator.  It is a small victory, but a victory nonetheless.  A small step toward goodness and away from evil. 

Why do they do it?  Some people actually enjoy being predators upon others. Everything from torturing and killing people, to tormenting animals, to road rage, to being rude to strangers in public,  to trolling on Blogit.  It gives them a feeling of power, of domination, and they enjoy it.  I do not give them the benefit of the doubt.  I see them as evil,  so I either walk away from them entirely, or I engage them in battle to defeat them.  Most of the time I walk away, because battle is very stressful and draining.  

But at the same time I realize,  if I see their evil nature and do not call them out for it,  I am just allowing them to move on to other unsuspecting victims who do not see them as the predators they are.  I am just kicking the can down the road, for someone else to deal with.

So you and I can be proud that we did not disengage or kick the can down the road.  We engaged a predator in battle, we fought the good fight,  and we won.  That is what I remember most about it, instead of the wounds and scars. Cheers

posted by GoldenMean on August 9, 2017 at 4:29 AM | link to this | reply

Nice is the key. 

posted by RPresta on August 8, 2017 at 6:05 PM | link to this | reply

I remember that threat.  I was like WTF!?  I think it was jealousy for the most part.

Oh, and social media is awful!    There are a lot of mean people out there!  It's scary.

posted by shelly_b on August 8, 2017 at 12:59 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Naut

it was just the other day.  

posted by -blackcat on August 8, 2017 at 12:03 PM | link to this | reply

BC

I don't remember that one - we probably weren't reading one another LOL...I knew a couple of people who became offensive - but they aren't around any longer. On the whole this place is remarkably civilized, judging by what I hear about other sites...

posted by Nautikos on August 8, 2017 at 10:56 AM | link to this | reply

I don't think you have much to worry about on here now I have been grumbled at twice but after I apologized we were friends again. Sometimes one cannot help saying something a bit near the knuckle. I was a bit mad with myself today.

posted by C_C_T on August 8, 2017 at 9:38 AM | link to this | reply

I came end toward the end of the blog wars. That is not to say that we do not have an issue once in a while. There are some people who do most hateful things, but those people are in their own little world. They do not venture out to comment.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on August 8, 2017 at 9:00 AM | link to this | reply

Live for life love.

posted by BC-A on August 8, 2017 at 8:57 AM | link to this | reply

You know, I remember that individual...

Reading those blogs and comments at the end was literally watching someone's meds dissipate and their mind becoming unglued in real time. That must have been weird to be on the receiving end of that.

As to being a good person, of course you already are! As I tell everyone who has a problem, "My name's Strat, not Jesus."

posted by strat on August 8, 2017 at 8:13 AM | link to this | reply

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