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Shellyb

That is a very sad and upsetting situation you describe love,

posted by WileyJohn on April 28, 2017 at 2:19 PM | link to this | reply

Sometimes when one's feelings are disturbed deeply one can only blank it out. It is probably a survival thing. I don't think it is the normal you, but sometimes one cannot do otherwise.    

posted by C_C_T on April 28, 2017 at 10:27 AM | link to this | reply

I understand.  I think there's a reason they have a support group for people affected by drug or alcohol abusers.  Some feel sadness.  Some are enablers.  And others are angry.  They are all valid emotions and need to be processed.

It's easy to stand on the side and have compassion.  To remember he was someone's son, fiance, or father, and to offer kindness and to empathize with the feelings of where it all went wrong or what could have been.  But when you're directly involved, it's less simple.  

posted by -blackcat on April 28, 2017 at 8:20 AM | link to this | reply

Our darling Kabu has stated it so well. I understand what you are saying, and agree with you.

posted by RPresta on April 27, 2017 at 8:02 PM | link to this | reply

I am with you. Some friendships become so toxic if you continue with it, you become an enabler for their life style. They don't want to change. One can even feel sympathy for someone but in this case here, you are right to save the sympathy for those poor babies. No changes here about the way I feel for you.xx

posted by Kabu on April 27, 2017 at 7:59 PM | link to this | reply

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