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There's little I can add to what the others have already said so well, except that I think you have a very forgiving soul...
posted by
Nautikos
on February 5, 2015 at 5:16 PM
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Re: JimmyA
LOL. I think you may be right.
posted by
TAPS.
on February 5, 2015 at 2:00 PM
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And no matter what the circumstances, I would have to assume that, if you end up on the Jerry Springer show, there's not going to be a happy ending . . . 
posted by
JimmyA
on February 5, 2015 at 1:52 PM
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taps
how true it is that the tears may go away, but the heartache remains.
posted by
jeansaw
on February 5, 2015 at 10:57 AM
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The Jerry Springer scene is a funny one to imagine.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on February 5, 2015 at 9:50 AM
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Re: Re: Pat_B
Exactly....I like to think that I would have changed the locks...did that once with numb nuts...then gave him a copy of the new key!!!Sigh!
posted by
Kabu
on February 5, 2015 at 9:45 AM
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Re: Pat_B
You know, that's exactly what I always said....before...
Now, I think that one does not really know what one will do in a given situation....until...
posted by
TAPS.
on February 5, 2015 at 6:47 AM
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You know, if my first husband had just walked out, I would not have
minded. I do not think I'd have let him come back - but my situation was different.
posted by
Pat_B
on February 5, 2015 at 3:38 AM
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Sometimes when you haven't faced a situation or problem personally I feel you are not in a position to say what would have been the best way to handle it yet it's best to part ways than live in an unhappy atmosphere.Reading your journey backwards is as interesting and inspiring as your present day journal.🌹
posted by
shamasehar
on February 5, 2015 at 1:49 AM
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I expect by the second time you you were mature enough to realize you could exist more harmoniously as good friends. Not a bad way, for the sake of the children, it is sad when the kids are torn between two loyalties.
posted by
C_C_T
on February 4, 2015 at 11:11 PM
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There are two types of people one may marry and not realize it before hand; one is not mentally competent to marry and the other is abusive. Othere than those I think most othere differences can be worked out if both parties want to do so.
posted by
Justi
on February 4, 2015 at 9:05 PM
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TAPS
Marriages are so interesting, aren't they? Organic things....they really are each an individual contract between two people, most unwritten, most unspoken or even specifically negotiated....but the two parties each think they know when the other has broken some part of the agreement....for perhaps the final time. Many reading your post would find it so strange....I don't particularly because I have shared confidences about many marriage "contracts" and am never surprised. I really wish sometimes that we would go back to the days of parents negotiating actual marriage contracts.
posted by
Krisles
on February 4, 2015 at 8:14 PM
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