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It sounds as if what you think or want doesn't matter to him even though he wants you to express it...you need to find your voice and speak for what you want and don't want or he will continue to force what he wants and likes as well as his son's likes on you...
posted by
Annicita
on November 23, 2014 at 12:10 PM
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Hang in there and feel your own spirit love.
posted by
BC-A
on November 14, 2014 at 7:59 AM
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You have a whole lot going on there. Here is to hoping that things sort themselves out.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on November 10, 2014 at 4:56 PM
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The lasitude seems to me to be depression ...It is such a bounder. So debilitaing. Easy answer to next year. If he wants to organize holidays...he will have to pay. You are almost broke. if he won't pay then that will give you a break to work on your house...perhaps you can then rent it to compliment your income...in the summer months anyway when tourists will pay almosy anything for a rental.
posted by
Kabu
on November 10, 2014 at 12:49 PM
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mneme
Have you ever thought of seeing a marriage counsellor? I know you're not married to your man, but...At the very least you could talk things out with someone who's probably heard it all, and you might find some emotional support! And it may be a long shot - but you might even get him involved...
posted by
Nautikos
on November 10, 2014 at 9:42 AM
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